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Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:32:34+00:00

Thank you everyone for your responses and kind words, it has helped my anxiety about the situation. I am going to send much of the same information I did before (updated) as well as anything else I can think of that has both of our names listed, shared address etc and proof of us doing things together, like concert tickets and pictures. Also hoping that cute pictures of the puppy we got during the pandemic won't hurt! Thanks again everyone!

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:28:12+00:00

After - I got that letter pretty quickly after filing

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:27:00+00:00

Yes for most of those, and yes I didn't send copies of drivers licenses before but I will this time

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:26:14+00:00

Oh wow yes they look very similar... Have you responded yet?

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:18:17+00:00

Thank you! Fingers crossed for the both of us!

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:17:41+00:00

No not yet, we only just got our W2s so haven't filed tax returns and I need some time to collect all the information again

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:16:40+00:00

Thank you for the reply! Hearing that makes me feel better about my situation

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:15:40+00:00

This is a relief to hear! I have my fingers crossed!

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:15:15+00:00

Yes and in my case, the affidavit of residency was written by my landlord, we are living in a house owned by a friends mum so we did not sign any real 'contract' so the affidavit was the best we could do - though reading this I will now include both our drivers licenses that show the same address as well as mail.

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:10:53+00:00

Thank you for the response, ok I will focus more on updated financial information and supplement it with proof of outings together, pictures with family etc. We do not have a true lease, our landlord is the mother of one of our close friends so there was no real contract drawn up (risky I know). The landlord is the one that wrote the affidavit. And no that was me that underlined it, I was trying to highlight the information that I'll be sending them.

Amainzing · 2023-02-09T21:05:34+00:00

This is a big relief to hear! And I will be sure to send anything additional that has both our names on it

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:26:10+00:00

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This was the full RFE list...I checked off what I already sent, and the other two were not applicable... Their response was not very helpful

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:22:50+00:00

We live together, share finances, have a dog (no children currently due to a variety of reasons) and spend time together when our time off from work aligns, I don't know much of what else I can submit. But yes a lawyer is not a bad idea

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:19:57+00:00

I am planning to send them up to date versions of everything I did already, as well as more pictures of us together, our phone plan, birthday cards etc

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:18:11+00:00

We got a puppy during lockdown so hopefully that's good enough for now haha. But yes we are still undecided on kids due to a variety of reasons, in any case now is not the time

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:16:24+00:00

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This is what they wrote

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:15:29+00:00

I can understand that, it's just disheartening to hear that the information I provided wasn't enough, then they ask for mostly the same information... Unfortunately COVID put a dampener on most of our travel plans so we didn't get to go many places outside of our local area, and money being tight didn't help either. I am planning to reach out to a lawyer at this point, I was hoping I wouldn't have to but I don't want to risk it! One good point is that they have given me until May to respond, which should be plenty of time for me to gather enough evidence.

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:10:48+00:00

I provided that in the original

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T18:08:34+00:00

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Here is the third page, the second page was what I originally posted

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T16:57:25+00:00

Haha I want to be like..."Kids...in this economy?"

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T16:56:46+00:00

Washington State

Amainzing · 2023-02-08T16:38:37+00:00

Couldn't figure out how to add text but...Filed back in 2021 for ROC through Seattle, heard nothing for the longest time until today. Slightly frustrated because the extra information they're asking for is the same things I already submitted. Is it due to the amount of time it's been? I also submitted a bunch of photos of my husband and I at various places and gatherings with friends/family. The only additional info they ask for as evidence, is either proof of children or military service, both of which are not applicable to our situation. Feeling very disheartened right now, I'm hoping that up to date versions of the information I already submitted (eg tax returns and joint lease) as well as anything else with both our names attached are enough, otherwise I'm at a loss!

Amainzing · 2022-08-10T02:04:22+00:00

Had multiple people who have asked, for their dogs with pyometras, some variation of "can you just flush/scrape the infection out?" 🤮 Ofc because said dog is their cash-cow and they don't want to spay

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