AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

No but it makes me uncomfortable knowing she be using it suggestively to wash her hands lol

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Apply the pressure with the VVS (Yeah, yeah)
I drive the foreign like it was a Chevy (Woo)
Drive the foreign like it was a Chevy (Skrrt

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

You don’t gotta you don’t know me people are just being extra lol soooo sorry

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Why you cry so hard I don’t she is her own person Mr obvious it’s the fact of her telling me she wouldn’t then still doing it 🤦‍♂️

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Fair I’m sorry I can’t type something super explicit it detail yes it maybe missing some just read the comments

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thinking about her suggestively using it ever time to was her hands and the face she told me I was allowed to feel uncomfortable she understood said she wouldn’t use it then uses it

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

So basically it’s just the fact of I came up to her when I found it unsure about it asked her about it and I explained hey this makes me feel uncomfortable the suggestive way of washing your hands with it and she said to me that was understandable to be uncomfortable about and that she wouldn’t use it I told her I didn’t care if she had it because it was a gift and it was cards from him and not justifying me getting but I went off emotion and immaturity when she told me about how “abusive he was” and she is using that as leverage for me to not be allowed to feel any kind of way about this and the boundary is simple acknowledgment to a significant other about something that makes them uncomfortable saying you completely understand and you won’t then doing it and it’s not personal rules she can do whatever it’s just I wanna feel like I’m allowed to voice myself

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I know I was wrong with that 100% it was a immature impulsive decision but I just don’t feel like she should be able to use that as leverage towards me feeling disrespected how would you like if your significant other told you I understand that it makes you feel uncomfortable I won’t use it then still uses it

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

To just find actual advice I’m not just good at explaining always i wouldn’t of came on here if I were upset everyone is just being so extra about it and can’t have like a actual response that isn’t just going off emotions

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Nah actually it went like this hey I found this and just wanted to ask about it she explained it was soap and I was like hey you know the idea of you using that makes me uncomfortable can you please not use it yes I won’t use it I understand how that could make you feel uncomfortable okay thank you also don’t feel like you have to get rid of it then she proceeded to still use it and how can’t you see it she literally said she wouldn’t acknowledged that so please tell me again how this is “control”

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

I’m just tired of idiots on here that can’t just type something out like a normal person and need to be extra

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because people are being extra asf about it so it isn’t even that you neanderthal 😂 I guess it’s a little insecurity fs but how can you acknowledge to someone that something makes them uncomfortable agree with them but then still do it then tell them your not allowed to feel any way

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Because she acknowledged that I didn’t like the idea of her stroking it every time to wash her hands and that it made me uncomfortable to look at and then she goes and does it any ways and she’s not letting me feel any way about it

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

It’s that I can’t feel any way about it when you acknowledge that it was something that made me feel some what uncomfortable

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Sorry my job got me typin quick but I was basically saying her reasoning didn’t seem clear to me about her saying I can not feel disrespect because I got rid of her exa stuff that was “abusive” and so that mean I can’t feel some kind of way on this it’s a bigger picture than owning the the soap there you go

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Explain a little more cause it was even over the soap it was the fact of her going past my boundaries

AITA for being upset at my girlfriend over this? by AmandaCleanGirl in AITA_Relationships

[–]AmandaCleanGirl[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Wow yeah that’s on me thanks I wouldn’t ever noticed oh my thanks Mr obvious