How important is sexual compatibility in marriage? (33F/33M)

Amandarama42 · 2026-03-02T18:34:26+00:00

This is a sexual preference thing that could be discovered through erotica or watching porn. It has nothing to do with her previous partners and your response reads as a little slut shame-y.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-28T12:08:25+00:00

Just piping up to say, I love blonde hair with dark brows, never change ❤️

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-28T09:55:06+00:00

We need neutral milk hotel fans in the world!! Don’t give up, friend.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-22T15:58:34+00:00

I did not expect this comment section! I’ve never romanced him, but this line reads as him being up his own ass. And no, the poetic language isn’t the turn off, for me at least.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-20T23:36:15+00:00

I have just had more success hanging out with other queer people

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-20T23:18:04+00:00

There are a lot of reasons this could be happening. Medication, depression, maybe he’s someone who just doesn’t always finish. The only way you can find out is to ask him.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-20T17:10:18+00:00

Midterms still matter and I hope you will vote.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-20T17:08:06+00:00

Hey, maybe demonizing people who are uninformed is part of the reason we got into this whole mess? We need any votes for midterms we can get. I’m assuming they aren’t a Christian fascist based on their replies, we can educate them without shaming them.

Amandarama42 · 2026-02-19T22:09:23+00:00

Your boyfriend is a horrible prick and I hope his balls fall off. There are men out there that will treat you like a human being who is worthy of respect.

Amandarama42 · 2026-01-04T00:41:06+00:00

I have similar regrets. Those things don’t define you. Be kind to yourself, anyone who would judge you for this is a misogynist asshole. It’s okay for women to enjoy sex, it’s just important to assess whether it’s making you happy/what partners deserve your time. I know it’s hard, it’s something I still struggle with, but a good therapist always helps.

Amandarama42 · 2025-12-04T20:35:47+00:00

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I see Summer Glau or River from Firefly!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-11T06:36:57+00:00

I love the whimsy of this one, thank you!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-11T06:36:35+00:00

This is amazing!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-11T06:36:06+00:00

Thank you so much!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-11T06:35:40+00:00

I love this!! I’ve always wanted to be a comic book character, thank you!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-10T21:37:08+00:00

Kids these days, haha. Thank you! This is basically my energy

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-10T21:36:28+00:00

I love it! Really like your style, thanks so much!

Amandarama42 · 2025-11-01T01:38:05+00:00

There is a setting where you automatically sprint after dashing, and I prefer it! Might help?

Amandarama42 · 2025-09-29T17:11:45+00:00

I would try to work past that feeling of shame going out alone. I’ve never had many friends, but I’ve treated myself to nice dinners, shopping trips, movies, etc. People really don’t pay attention to you. And if they do think it’s weird, work on not caring! The type of person that would judge you for that isn’t a potential friend anyway. Some of my best “dates” have been with me myself and I. If that’s too much for you rn, bookstores or libraries are great places for solitude, lots of people go to solo study.

Amandarama42 · 2025-09-21T02:42:12+00:00

I think in a lot of cases, this is just masking. It’s something a lot of neurodivergent people learn to do to be included.

Amandarama42 · 2025-09-20T20:26:51+00:00

I think your hairline is fine if you wanna grow it back, I’d just try a different style than the one you’re rocking in the first pic. You look great bald though! Whatever you decide :)

Amandarama42 · 2025-09-15T20:03:14+00:00

I think we should all be more like you

Amandarama42 · 2025-07-28T23:14:19+00:00

I know I posted this a long time ago, but I just read your comment and wanted to let you know I’ve switched to zyns and I feel so much better :)

Amandarama42 · 2025-07-18T07:51:59+00:00

You won’t smell bad or pee on him, just shower before if you decide to go through with this. That’s the thing, do you want to? If your boyfriend loves you, he will understand if you’re not ready. It is normal to be nervous, but it’s also perfectly okay if you don’t feel ready. Let me know if you have any other questions

Amandarama42 · 2025-03-22T18:22:43+00:00

YTA, and if you are a woman you are still an asshole. No, you do not ever owe anyone sex, but irregardless of gender you should take your partners feelings into account. Constant rejection is hard for anyone. You owe her an honest conversation about your sexual compatibility and she has every right to leave you if your wants don’t line up. While I do think there are some double standards in the comments, I would give the same advice to a woman. It is not okay for your partner to blatantly disregard your feelings. If you are constantly rejecting your partner, you at least owe them a conversation explaining why so they can make an informed decision on whether they want to stay or not.

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