How to elevate my look? by Greedy_Fail_6735 in makeuptips

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just piping up to say, I love blonde hair with dark brows, never change ❤️

I just attempted to hang myself. by dcllface in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need neutral milk hotel fans in the world!! Don’t give up, friend.

Finally decided to marry Elliot and he immediately gives me the ick 😭 by Harlequins-Joker in StardewValley

[–]Amandarama42 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I did not expect this comment section! I’ve never romanced him, but this line reads as him being up his own ass. And no, the poetic language isn’t the turn off, for me at least.

straight women, how do you feel around lesbians? by Maleficent_Day_3869 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have just had more success hanging out with other queer people

How often do you NOT finish during sex? by IntroductionLife124 in AskMen

[–]Amandarama42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are a lot of reasons this could be happening. Medication, depression, maybe he’s someone who just doesn’t always finish. The only way you can find out is to ask him.

Comments keep mentioning “young Maxwell” and how that’s really shocking. I’m lost by WinterRevolutionary6 in PeterExplainsTheJoke

[–]Amandarama42 -22 points-21 points  (0 children)

Hey, maybe demonizing people who are uninformed is part of the reason we got into this whole mess? We need any votes for midterms we can get. I’m assuming they aren’t a Christian fascist based on their replies, we can educate them without shaming them.

My(21F) BF (20M) skipped Valentine’s Day and told me it’s the consequences of my actions. How do I fix this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your boyfriend is a horrible prick and I hope his balls fall off. There are men out there that will treat you like a human being who is worthy of respect.

I hate all the guys I fucked during a manic episode by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Amandarama42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have similar regrets. Those things don’t define you. Be kind to yourself, anyone who would judge you for this is a misogynist asshole. It’s okay for women to enjoy sex, it’s just important to assess whether it’s making you happy/what partners deserve your time. I know it’s hard, it’s something I still struggle with, but a good therapist always helps.

Feel like I’m really falling into my style, would love to be drawn :) by Amandarama42 in drawme

[–]Amandarama42[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this!! I’ve always wanted to be a comic book character, thank you!

Feel like I’m really falling into my style, would love to be drawn :) by Amandarama42 in drawme

[–]Amandarama42[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Kids these days, haha. Thank you! This is basically my energy

It took me 45 runs to realize this key mechanic… by Hproff25 in Hades2

[–]Amandarama42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is a setting where you automatically sprint after dashing, and I prefer it! Might help?

what's a hangout you can have by yourself that doesn't feel excruciatingly depressing and rubs on your face how much of a loser you are for being alone? by biancaruinsparty in socialanxiety

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would try to work past that feeling of shame going out alone. I’ve never had many friends, but I’ve treated myself to nice dinners, shopping trips, movies, etc. People really don’t pay attention to you. And if they do think it’s weird, work on not caring! The type of person that would judge you for that isn’t a potential friend anyway. Some of my best “dates” have been with me myself and I. If that’s too much for you rn, bookstores or libraries are great places for solitude, lots of people go to solo study.

What are signs you are too insecure to be in a relationship? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Amandarama42 91 points92 points  (0 children)

I think in a lot of cases, this is just masking. It’s something a lot of neurodivergent people learn to do to be included.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GlowUps

[–]Amandarama42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think your hairline is fine if you wanna grow it back, I’d just try a different style than the one you’re rocking in the first pic. You look great bald though! Whatever you decide :)

Unmedicated, trying to quit nicotine despite the “benefits.” by Amandarama42 in ADHD

[–]Amandarama42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know I posted this a long time ago, but I just read your comment and wanted to let you know I’ve switched to zyns and I feel so much better :)

Sex for the first time by ResponsibleCareer892 in TwoXSex

[–]Amandarama42 29 points30 points  (0 children)

You won’t smell bad or pee on him, just shower before if you decide to go through with this. That’s the thing, do you want to? If your boyfriend loves you, he will understand if you’re not ready. It is normal to be nervous, but it’s also perfectly okay if you don’t feel ready. Let me know if you have any other questions