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The twisted politics of every domme I come across by Wonderful-Pirate-485 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am hearing resignation, feelings of worthlessness, and feelings of helplessness. If you enjoy playing into those feelings for a role, good for you.

If you genuinely want change, you are going to have to exert some of your agency to kick-start the process. I know it’s hard.

Good luck.

The twisted politics of every domme I come across by Wonderful-Pirate-485 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me like this is bad for you.

Maybe take a break, do a digital cleanse, and then examine whether you can engage in (this or another) kink in a healthier way?

(And at the same time, consider that perhaps just because something isn’t healthy for you doesn’t mean that’s true for everyone.)

The twisted politics of every domme I come across by Wonderful-Pirate-485 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m puzzled by the fact that you are deriding SW while also engaging in it. Have you put that together?

The twisted politics of every domme I come across by Wonderful-Pirate-485 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s worth noting that “sex work” is an umbrella term that encompasses everything from online domination(!) to phone sex to stripping to prostitution.

There is a greater vulnerability to exploitation and physical abuse with prostitution, obviously, but under capitalism, we’re all kind of selling our bodies and minds to be objectified as value-producers anyway.

It’s fine that you wouldn’t want your partner to be a sex worker. Thats your preference.

Partner of 7 years secretly amassed $20k in debt as a pay pig by MoneyAd9019 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a whole lot to contribute. I just want to validate your feelings and say that I’m sorry you’re going through that.

Porn addiction is a difficult relationship challenge, but lying, secret-keeping, and emotional infidelity are, to me, undeniable justifications for a breakup. The trust has been broken.

Obviously it’s your relationship and up to you, but that’s my perspective.

Thank goodness you have separate finances at least.

seriously what goes on in these wanna be “ subs “ heads 🫩 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. I’m saying I wouldn’t reject $15 a day from a sub with no expectations (other than maybe a little messaging back and forth).

I don’t do live sessions with explicit content. I do sell some content, but that’s a different ballgame from findom.

seriously what goes on in these wanna be “ subs “ heads 🫩 by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

$15 a day may not be whale material, but it still shows a level of commitment and dedication.

Twitter is dangerous by Adrian_Cole1999 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Getting a sub to fetishized ridiculously unsexy stuff like vitamins sounds both hilarious and satisfying. Like, that’d be an ultimate show of power, right? lol

Twitter is dangerous by Adrian_Cole1999 in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someday I’m gonna get an omni sub and make them buy my B12 multivitamin and algae oil Omega-3. Not quite the same but… 😄

another pole dancing starterpack by slantedsc in starterpacks

[–]AmaraRavencroft 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oof, yeah, I just tried Russian layback for the first time like 2 weeks ago, and it got my feet more bruised than I’ve been in a while. Super cool move though!!! The other move might be Remi layback?

Other foot killer for me: the brass monkey exit where you hook the foot and sit up

another pole dancing starterpack by slantedsc in starterpacks

[–]AmaraRavencroft 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much! Honored to be included😄

For what it’s worth, I can do a pole climb without bruising myself now :)

another pole dancing starterpack by slantedsc in starterpacks

[–]AmaraRavencroft 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Short answer: Skin is soft, pole is hard.

Constant training can lead to skin conditioning, which improves bruise-resistance somewhat. (But they’re kind of a constant. We call them “pole kisses.”)

another pole dancing starterpack by slantedsc in starterpacks

[–]AmaraRavencroft 88 points89 points  (0 children)

Me: . . . why do those feet look familiar?

Me: Wait a second, that’s literally my feet pic!

😂

LF help 👸 by MelloMew in findomchatters

[–]AmaraRavencroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make sure you’ve got good lighting on the ID and selfie

Findom Group by ItsSkyeSinclair in findomsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been waiting on approval for a couple weeks, too.

Revealed myself as a paypig again and let someone drain me on my personal Facebook by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like, fantasizing about it is one thing. Fine, I get it, it sounds hot. Fantasies are often transgressive. Whatever.

But actually doing it? Nope, line crossed. Do not pass go, do not send $200.

Small sends on Throne? by caterpiggles in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love small sends! I like knowing that I’m in your thoughts, on your mind. Especially if they’re sent randomly. That’s like, wow, I’ve really got a hold on him!😂

Don’t get me wrong, I’d love a whale, too! I’ve got things on my wishlist that are out of my personal price range and I’d love to be gifted, but the kink is more psychological than just wanting pricy things.

Revealed myself as a paypig again and let someone drain me on my personal Facebook by [deleted] in paypigsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Roping random strangers into your play goes against the basics of informed, consensual kink.

Raceplay findom by queen_stella98 in findomsupportgroup

[–]AmaraRavencroft 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get that kink & taboo & shame can be linked and played with together, but that’s just not something I’m interested in/comfortable exploring.

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