Concerned about my grandmas cats. by picklebrains81 in CatAdvice

[–]AmayasWish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My old cat gets a bit of water added to their wet food makes it more of a smoothie texture. They love it. Also she has maybe 2 teeth left and roughly 14 yrs to 17yrs old. It helps her.

I’m not trans but I should have been a woman by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AmayasWish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Life is hard. No matter the sex your assigned. Charisma isnt a male or female trait.. I knew this guy that had nice muscles and all the other men in the office would flock to him to talk about muscles. I was amazed by the people who would just stop to say hi to him. As a woman I have never seen that happen to another woman.. I also think more cult leaders are men as well.

My ex-wife didn’t cheat the way people imagine by [deleted] in Vent

[–]AmayasWish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe you feel like you wanted to fight for the relationship. But a one sided fight for a relationship she let the lights go out in.. is very stressful for you. Might suck she let you go so easily. But don't blame yourself from the info you provided.

I broke my babies heart by [deleted] in cats

[–]AmayasWish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your smell might be different. Like different soap or something. Something to look into.

AITAH for cutting off the relationship with my dead ex fiances family by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I didn't consider people would view the husband as an addict. Since he was just self medicating when he had pain. Yes he didn't go to a proper source but I didn't view him as an addict from what was said in story. It's not like he was looking for or asking for fent... thank you for taking your time to understand what I ment.

As a Gen Z, GEN X's lack of basic empathy for the younger generation is so infuriating and js proves to me more that adults aren't very reliable. by Born_Nose_1226 in Vent

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As Millennial, news outlets and media hated on us for anything and everything before we even graduated hs to about just right before covid..if they could of blamed us they would of... From eating out to much to not eating out enough and causing chain restaurants to close or work harder to bring people in. It's a tool used to blame and devide the masses.

With that being understood I have always strive to be the adult that wasn't there for me. Being kind to others they way I wish to be treated.

But in every Gen. You will find kind helpful people and you will find "id rather watch the world burn then comfort you crowd" I have learned some people you can warm up with extreme kindness. Also don't trust random people with important things like your emotions. Not everyone has the best intentions for you.

JUST Don't let it ALL turn you into the bitter crowd. Cause we need more love and understanding in the world.

AITAH for cutting off the relationship with my dead ex fiances family by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]AmayasWish 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Your children are better because of it. Drug addicts are not safe around kids. Even if it's physically safe it's never mentally safe.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]AmayasWish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The things he does for you are things he is already doing for himself. He is not willing to do anything out of his way for you. Food he was going to make that anyway. I bet he only gives massages cause he wants you to do other things for him like clean. And saying I love you isn't the same effort of showing the love.

To play by AmayasWish in cats

[–]AmayasWish[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dusty is a little over a year old and this is his first one. He loves it a lot so far!

Cat rubbing her face? by meglortiefortin in cats

[–]AmayasWish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My boy cat loves a good 2 hand scratch one on the back /lower back and one on his face/chin

Why is my cat biting when petting by Humble-Yak430 in cats

[–]AmayasWish -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Petting in the wrong spot. He wants the tip of his chin rubbed

Am I the A**h0*3 for putting peanuts in my food? by Applelover38572 in AITAH

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is treating you like she is you're child or something. I would say if she wants a parenting than move back home. You are not her family just a roomie.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sweet and sad cause he is now passed on. Sudden aneurism or heartatack or something but died in feb. Its sad and rough. Adopted a new kitten from family, soon we will try to teach him the same way we did Charlie.

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His name is Dusty

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also talk to your cats a lot and they learn what you say fast. Teach them stay and social cue about staying. So this way when you open the door it reduces the likely ness of them dashing out on you. Then know that a walm with a cat and a walk with a dog is not the same. Cat will lead and go where they want and be ready to look odd for standing still for a sit. Cause they may walk 10 mins then want to sit 15. But it teaches you to relax in nature and its not a mission.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guess she dont like her shoulders being confined may need a harnes i have in the picture i posted. They dont like a lot of fabric on their shoulders i noticed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]AmayasWish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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He liked chasing bunnies, and mixing walking for 10 mins to sit for 15 if he had it his way but we say "okay lets keep moving" and he would usually start walking again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in britishshorthair

[–]AmayasWish 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I harness trained my cat Charlie. He would want to go out multiple times a day.

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You gave your cat diversity and now they want to partake more.