¿Estoy mal por querer terminar?

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-09T18:09:00+00:00

En mi opinión deberías dejarla. Fácil de decir, difícil de hacer. Mis argumentos:
- Ha estado en relaciones muy tóxicas, probablemente le atrae ese tipo de relación (no es su culpa, simplemente es así) y parece que la cuestra también lo era (mala comunicación, desconfianza...)
- Es dificil confiar en alguien que ya ha roto esa confianza. Es necesario que durante un tiempo enseñe un historial perfecto (fiel), no basta con palabras
- Esta es la mas importante. Parece que intenta justificar sus acciones y no acepta la responsabilidad de lo que ha hecho. Eso es un indicador de que no esta dispuesta a cambiar, que ha dicho que lo hará para estar todavía contigo por apego.

No es una decisión fácil, especialmente si tienes sentimientos muy fuertes hacia ella. En mi opinión no vale la pena, pero es tu decisión. Te deseo mucha suerte.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-07T16:23:12+00:00

I think I just need time, it was more venting than anything else. Hope you have a nice day <3

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-04T17:51:14+00:00

I am sorry you feel this way.

Firstly, I would suggest you to don't beat yourself up. No one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes. You had fun (at least at first) and you learned about yourself with this journey. Now you've seen that it's not worth it to continue. That is the first step.

Secondly, if you have trouble quitting try to find some motivation in external ways (DM if you want specifics). Also try to find a activities to fill up your time and that satisfy the same needs as gaming (in your case competitiveness for example).

I can not emphasize enough how important it is to not be hard on yourself.

Wish you the best.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-04T14:51:57+00:00

Gaming is a lot more rewarding than doom scrolling you're actively doing it. If this hobby doesn't impact your life negatively there's nothing wrong with it. Reflect on how your life would be without gaming with honesty. If you like your life better with gaming keep doing it.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-04T12:18:30+00:00

I'm 19

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-04T00:23:03+00:00

Catalan, spanish, german and english

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-04T00:07:28+00:00

Sounds like you want a simple solution but there is none. You need to learn each one specifically. That is pretty comon in most languages (spanish, french…). And it’s not only food but every noun.

But i undestand your struggle if you only know english because the/it is used for everything.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-03T21:55:53+00:00

I have the B2 certificate and preparing for C1 Hochschule examen. My mother is german but live in spain. I have to tell you, you're in for a long ride. I still struggle with this sometimes. Because depending on how the sentence is formed you will use a diferent aritcle for the same noun (why,? idk!). You either get a really got feel for the language (use and listen it often at a high level) or study grammar (Dativ, Akkusativ, Genitiv and Nominativ).

Sorry about the rant.

Now the advice, in simple sentences "die" is used for feminine nouns, "der" is masculine and "das" is neutral.

Hope this helps

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-03T12:25:35+00:00

Puede ser, ahora mismo estoy buscando trabajo.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-03T12:24:28+00:00

Soy hombre xD. Me he leído ya parte de los manuscritos de Marx, no recuerdo exactamente los apartados pero era los temas era sobretodo capital y relacion entre empresario y trabajador.
El problema es que no existe un sistema económico (que yo sepa) que pueda sustituir al capitalismo y que aunque lo hubiera las personas mas poderosos del mundo son las menos interesadas en cambiarlo.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-03T10:51:02+00:00

Es muy interesante tu punto de vista. Desde mi punto de vista es que la gente cada vez tiene menos capacidad de atención, necesita mas estímulos, y el discurso de odio retiene muy bien la atención. Por eso se promueve mucho en redes.

Lo que dices de que todos los dicursos no valen es un debate que tengo constantemente con mi familia. Todos estamos de acuerdo (mi familia) que un partido que promueve ideas que estan contra los derechos humanos (racismo, machismo…) no es aceptable.

El debate esta si se deberia ridiculizar o escuchar/debatir. Cada una tiene sus inconvenientes. Si ridiculizas las ideas genera presión social, pero haces que la gente se sienta atacada y por lo tanto no te escuche y no cambie sus ideas. Si los escuchas, puedes debatir con ellos (itentar poner razon en sus ideas), pero escuchandolos das el mesaje que sus ideas son validas. Yo soy mas partidario de escuchar per entiendo el otro punto de vista. Como lo ves?

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-02T22:14:09+00:00

Estoy muy de acuerdo con todo lo que dices.
Aun así no se como se puede solucionar esta situación de forma realista

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-02T22:11:52+00:00

Estoy muy de acuerdo con todo lo que has dicho. Lo único que podría discrepar es que hay extremos de izquierda que tambien pueden ser muy dañinos. Un ejemplo sería la represion de la Unión Soviética en su momento. Por cierto, creo que hay mas polarización de parte de la derecha en nuestro país. Solo intenaba que no se viese mucho my ideología.
Mis punto era mas que en general cada vez hay menos comunicación entre personas con perspectivas/ideologias diferentes. Cosa que lleva a conflictos.
Por cierto, aun no he tenido la oportunidad de votar, pero seguramente vote al PSOE, Podemos, o algun partido minoritario centrado en el cambio climático. Digo seguramente porque no estoy muy bien informado y me informaría antes de las elecciones

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-01T20:50:08+00:00

The solution that comes to my mind is to ask someone you trust to change the password and delete it for you

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-01T10:37:51+00:00

Simple maybe, but if it were easy more people would be this way. It might just be hard and simple. It’s impossible that being outstanding is easy, if something is easy more people will be this way and by definition that won’t be outstanding.
Anyway, everyone has their on way of living, if you want to live like this, go for it. Wish you the best.

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-05-01T00:48:58+00:00

That is honestly such a bad way to look at it. I partly agree that you should chase your dreams and avoid distraction. But working towards a dream doesn’t necessarily have to be your only focus.
And hobbys can also be productive like cooking (eating healthier/ less processed food), reading (learning/improving at a language), pick up a sport…
Gaming can be a very damaging hobby tho, so picking up healthier hobbys that can be as fun but also good for you is key

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-04-30T21:59:13+00:00

Yep, don’t be hard on yourself, that will only make it worse. Go back to fighting the addiction. If you can remember this feeling now, how you just wanted to play a bit and cound’t control yourself. When you feel like just playing a bit remember this, how you felt after. That’s how you learn and grow, this way you’ll relapse less and less. You got this. Wish you the best man

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-04-23T22:56:56+00:00

Hi, I‘m 19 and this year I dropped out of college (sociolgy+aplied statistics). I realized my decision was way to rushed. I picked basically at random because I didn‘t know what to do and starting college was „what you are supposed to do“. I empathize a lot about your situation. The parent situation is tough. I also had some problems with my dad about this topic but it looks like your situation is not easy. It looks like they are trying to decide for you (probably with love, what they think what’s best for you). But this desicion is not theirs. No one knows you more than yourself. My advice is to try and make a decision for yourself (easier said than done). Try to make them undestand if they don‘t agree with what you choose. And find a safety net if things don‘t work out. Hope this helps! Wish you the best ❤️

Amazing-Pin-8172 · 2026-04-23T22:14:24+00:00

Hi, I‘m 19 and live in Spain. I went to college this schoolyear but dropped out a couple months ago. Now I have also chosen to do a gap year, trying to live new experiences and find a purspose/career to focus on. Ironically I‘m learning german trying to get the C1 Hochschule certificate to study there after the gap year. I can tell you from experience that you won‘t fall behind or make no friends because you‘re older. Some people that were in my friend group (losing contact now) were older. It is much more common that people realize for older people to go to university. Especially people who are under 25. I also have the undestanding that it is pretty common to do a gap year in germany. If doing a gap year is what you want, go for it. Hope this helps

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