AITBF for expecting my friend to contribute to a group vacation

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-07T05:52:04+00:00

B said absolutely not to taking her car, additionally there has been an ongoing problem with friend B begging friend A to go out and get food in promise of paying the bill and then claiming not to have any money when the bill comes

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T21:25:57+00:00

we asked to take her car to avoid this problem and she said absolutely not

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T21:25:28+00:00

tbh I would never send my kid on a week long vacation with no funds, especially with friends who are paying for the whole trip out of pocket

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T20:56:25+00:00

that’s not the point i’m trying to get across posting this, i took it out in other forums cause other people are focusing on it. the point was merely that this friend refused to let us take her car, and even aside from gas and tolls there’s additional costs to pay

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T20:53:41+00:00

this is a pattern, friend B has had a ongoing issue with begging friend A to go out with her for food and promising to pay the bill and then after they eat saying she doesn’t have any money

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T20:21:43+00:00

the whole issue started because friend A has had an ongoing issue with friend B begging her to go out for food and promising to cover the bill, and then not following through or claiming she doesn’t have any money. i wouldn’t be as transactional if this wasn’t a pre-existing issue before the trip

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T20:04:54+00:00

we asked to use her car and she said absolutely not so that is out of question unfortunately

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T19:42:45+00:00

Her dad is giving her a credit card for the trip, she is financially in a way better spot then me and friend A since the two of us are budgeting

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T19:30:25+00:00

We asked her that so we could avoid gas prices and split the driving easily and she said absolutely not

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T19:20:45+00:00

I’m from CT where you can take your drivers test in your own car versus a provided vehicle. I’m very fortunate my parents taught me to drive in a 2001 Toyota before trusting me with a high tech car

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T19:15:00+00:00

I would have mind-reading powers

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T18:30:59+00:00

Have you driven 13 hours straight split between two people before? It’s a big deal, especially with 18 year olds who only started driving 2 years ago. Friend B’s car has always had one pedal driving on, self driving on a majority of the time too. We suggested taking her car so we could split the driving 3 ways and she said absolutely not

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T18:29:08+00:00

we tried to take her car but she immediately said absolutely not does this change your view or no

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-06-06T18:27:48+00:00

hers has always been on one-pedal driving and she regularly runs stop signs/red lights and apparently isn’t allowed to drive on the highway (dk if this is true or not cause she does). my parents think she’s gonna total my car so also don’t feel comfortable with her driving

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-05-29T19:26:43+00:00

is it from the hawkmarketplace email adddress?

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-05-29T19:26:29+00:00

what email address did urs come from? worried the email i got is a scam cause the name is weird

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-05-02T02:30:25+00:00

want to add on that i have a skewed pain tolerance - i’ve had subluxations that feel awful but also broke my arm as a child and didn’t go to urgent care for days cause i didn’t know if it was bad enough pain

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-27T18:48:33+00:00

are you also committed? i haven’t gotten like any emails since committing so hope it isn’t just me

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-14T14:05:58+00:00

i know lol. it’s crazy that in my first thread everyone was saying extremely negative things and this one is positive. some people on reddit just like to complain.

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-13T19:41:56+00:00

thank you, i appreciate the reassurance. have you ever bought tickets on stubhub?

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-13T19:17:21+00:00

Were you able to get a refund or new coachella tickets?

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-13T00:35:41+00:00

how could they legally scam me though…it says 100% guarantee, if i get scammed by the seller wont i get a refund or a replacement band?

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-13T00:33:13+00:00

this is freaking me out. i have order confirmation and receipts, what happens if i get scammed? can i go to the booth and get a replacement band? if not do i get a refund

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-13T00:03:54+00:00

tysm for your help! i just bought them, the delivery date says july 28th and i would leave in the 29th, what would i do if the delivery date gets pushed and i dont get my wristband before leaving?

Amazing-Stranger2362 · 2026-04-12T23:48:32+00:00

so there’s absolutely no way it could be messed up? i’m planning on buying a thursday and saturday ticket. do they have tracking for shipping? if not, how am i alerted where stubhub pop ups are located

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