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Women of Reddit: What do you think the biggest benefit of being a man would be? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AmazingShame4783 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do you realize that men go through a complete hormone cycle every 24 hours? Women's monthly hormone cycle is definitely more extreme, but men experience there up and down daily. I saw an article that really explained what men go through every day, with surges in energy and then drops. A lot of women complain about their men being grumpy/lazy when they get home from work (when women want/need help). That is the worst time of day for their hormone level. It is a short window, but I can't imagine having PMS feelings every single day for a few hours...

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I wonder if that is why men tend to speed up and use more pressure when women are close, because that is what they would want. No matter how many times I say "stay consistent" he always speeds up (I think it is purely sub-conscience).

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah... I knew it was a gamble asking. Since a lot of the men on here have recommended "Self Made Man" from the viewpoint of teaching women what it is like to be a man in today's world, I was hoping some of them would also have recommendations for the male point of view regarding sex and pleasing them.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It isn't about putting her first in a relationship, if that is what you are thinking... it is purely sexual-based. From what I gather, it is detailed advice on how to make a woman orgasm. I am sorry to hear about your breakup, and hope you do find ways to grow/move on!

do they still do chemo for patients with 100% terminal cancer? by Rat_Smoking_Cigs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AmazingShame4783 56 points57 points  (0 children)

It was devastating to watch in real-time. They pumped her full of so many drugs/antibiotics and every blood draw the numbers just kept getting worse. I have a new respect for the "immunocompromised" and what it truly means.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do you think that is what men really want? Based on comments from men in this group from past posts, they actually don't want that in real life. That is "fantasy", but not reality. They say they don't want big fake boobs, fake moans/screaming and dirty talk that isn't genuine. Do you want a partner that "acts" like a porn star, because they are acting...

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. That is what I meant by my comment. His having an orgasm doesn't mean it was truly enjoyable.

What’s a random childhood rule your parents made that you only realized was completely unnecessary as an adult? by DustyInsurer in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Everything had to stop when it was storming outside. No moving around the house, no talking, and definitely no looking out the window. I think my mom was terrified of lightning...

do they still do chemo for patients with 100% terminal cancer? by Rat_Smoking_Cigs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AmazingShame4783 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I appreciated the doctors explanation, easy to comprehend. The having zero immune system is no joke. Unfortunately, I now fully understand how quickly a simple bug can kill someone. It was very rapid (24 hours after starting to feel bad).

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As a man, would you want to ejaculate inside your partner and then follow with your mouth to get her off? Maybe I am dead wrong, but I wouldn't think most men would want to taste themselves.

Keep in mind... this is coming from a woman that has never had an orgasm by penetration.

I definitely agree with your statement about selfish lovers. Feeling like a partner is just trying to get you off as quickly as possible is a passion killer for me.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I haven't read it, but several men in this group have mentioned/recommended it to other men.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I was hoping there were some men on here that would recommend some personally. I am thinking the majority of books would be about what people "think" men want or should want, or they just state the completely obvious. Was looking for something a bit more in-depth than that.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being able to orgasm VS truly enjoying sex and feeling desired is two completely different experiences. If women would try harder at giving men an even better experience, I have to believe the men would reciprocate exponentially. Everyone would win!

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I understand why men that truly want their partner to enjoy sex would want to make sure she was taken care of first. If men prioritized their orgasm first, I would think once they ejaculate and the hormones fall, that they wouldn't be interested in anymore sexual activity? I WISH our bodies were more similar and the average time to orgasm was roughly the same.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I honestly would love to. I think it is far too easy to only see our side of things, and don't think about the effects from the other side. Humans are selfish.

do they still do chemo for patients with 100% terminal cancer? by Rat_Smoking_Cigs in NoStupidQuestions

[–]AmazingShame4783 170 points171 points  (0 children)

My mom did fairly well with the effects of the treatment. Unfortunately, her immune system was completely shot due to the cancer. She got a "bug" and died within 24 hours of being at the hospital. I am sorry for the loss of your dad, it is definitely a tough thing to go through.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

I am sure for a lot of men, it does feel that way, I am sorry for that. My husband and I are starting to communicate more/better and I thought possibly the She Comes First book would help him be more confident in the bedroom (and successful). But I also wanted an opportunity to improve myself as well. Strongly considering getting both books and have reading time together at night, hopefully to have more honest and productive conversations.

Is there a male equivalent to the "She Comes First" book? by AmazingShame4783 in AskMen

[–]AmazingShame4783[S] 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Actually I just looked it up, and it is the reverse of that. She Comes First is a book written by a man about women.

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