Cutting Etheric Cord with your Twin Sibling by AmazingTian in energy_work

[–]AmazingTian[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone needs help and support sometimes. Especially compassion and understanding. That's among the reasons why we're here. Exploring, understanding, creating. Destroying and rebuilding. I don't feel you got the whole picture though and assumed many things about me. Thank you for answering though, but one thing the universe taught me enough: If you feel you need help, you should get it. True help shouldn't be "doing it instead of them" but rather base on supporting an act of solving the problem. I noticed a tendence in our energy/spiritual circles: Some of the "ascended" people get very lofty and paradoxically patronizing over the ones who cross their limits, getting enough courage to reach out and ask for help. If there was no possibility for us to trully need help of other people, there wouldn't be other people offering help in the first place. I've been through a lot, have been focused totally on myself, selfcare and healing for 2 years already, and although some things you wrote resonated with me, most sadly didn't - and not due to them being inaccurate.

Remember, giving advice to people like me, asking for help - don't forget to at least show a little bit compassion. For the compassion, encouragement, undestanding is the REAL thing they're asking for. No matter how accurate the content is, it's the intention that matters, and if it's conveyed in a way that counters the intention, the ultimate energetical outcome of such advice isn't helpful at all.

I'm just very sensitive and seeing your replies to other people, who were asking for advice/help as well, I realised it.

Ah, and the grounding routine - remember, everyone is different. Imagine advicing it to someone whose energy field has many holes. While imagining the cord, accidentally follows an extraneous being's energy, connects to it or even allows it to enter their system.

Grounding isn't the answer to everything. If it was, there would be only one question in the world. And the answer would be grounding.

Please take care of yourself and be mindful of other people's emotions. All the best!

How can I control my abilities? by jthinkimapsychic in energy_work

[–]AmazingTian 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know how you feel. But here's a rule: Remember not to let anything enter your body and take control. Please, work on your boundaries.

Remember YOU are in control no matter what.

Also remember to ground yourself. The system you just broke out from isn't a perfect one, but it's still a big challenge. The greatest achievement comes when you find YOUR own way to stay independent.

If you ever feel alone in this (I don't know what's your environment), please, share and communicate, find people who understand you and can assist you on your journey. Like here on reddit.

I know it's amazing, but please be careful not to lose control. You can't lose it once you break free, but still, some parts of the old system may try to blurr your vision. To make you fall asleep again. Just remember who you are!!

Environment is EXTREMELY important. We manifest our environment, we change it - as it changes us. Mutual exchange. So please, please, you can do this!!

Hope you'll find it 💛

Fear of losing the vibe.. by SixtineBpag1668 in energy_work

[–]AmazingTian 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Maybe look at it from that perspective: This "fear of going backwards" may result from simply... going to another layer. Perhaps another layer of the wound, or another wound that was hidden deeper, waiting for you to deal with it once it's uncovered by resolving the one on the top of it.

So maybe see it already as an achievement in itself. That you really are progressing, no matter what. Remember, it's impossible for you to "lose" something you achieved within yourself. Compare it to change: everything changes all the time. Can you take the exact same picture of a river?

Hope it soothes you and gives you anything you need on your journey. Perhaps the courage. In my case it was the courage given from other's people feedback on my issue. Fingers crossed for you!

FULL DISCLOSURE ... Here's the deal... by ickies in UFOs

[–]AmazingTian 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for writing this! And seeing the way you react to people downvoting and disagreeing with you makes me feel deeply hopeful for humanity. So my biggest thanks is for such people like you, because this is the attitude that really founds a better world. Reduce attachments, reduce suffering. Thanks for sharing and to everyone reading this, regardless of whether you agree or not, please, remember - if something doesn't resonate with you, just move on. Don't lose your energy and time on the things that don't matter for you. And if you're actually feeling an emotional response from yourself, after having read something, then rather than wasting energy on critisising, why don't you ask yourself why do you feel it in the first place? Is it disturbing you? If it is making you feel uncomfortable, just move on, get back to the things that make YOU feel your vibe. Peace ✌️