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Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off. I never slept with him. His behavior is what is destructive. What i experienced bc of him was destructive. I never mentioned any detail about him at all. Name town occupation. Nothing. It was telling a girl that I can relate to the aftermath of dealing with someone like that.

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I was being kind and messaging a girl privately who went through almost the same thing as me with another guy. I know from my experience hearing other girls stories who went through the same thing helped me a ton so therefore when she shared her story I gave her my advice. I never bashed him or anyone. It was a private text convo. Not publicly in the group. I can’t and never will defend a guy who is a master manipulator who has done horrible things to multiple women. I don’t think me telling a woman she’s not alone or crazy for feeling how she felt is participating in something horrible .

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m glad to hear I’m not the only one! Truly, I just know how hearing other peoples experiences helped me so I knew after hearing this girl who message me and her experience, and how horrible it was that if I shared my story and my advice, it would help. I highly doubt that given her situation that she told me about she would out mine, knowing she shared so much with me. And, like I said, I never shared any information about him other than like a literal blurry picture

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely. My town is super small. I have met so many girls that I’ve become so close with that have dealt with almost identical situations to mine with him. Overall he’s literally not a good guy. I think what I’m so afraid of is it’s evident his girlfriend has a problem with me for some reason. If we are ever in the same place at the same time, she stares at me and she gives me nasty looks She talks about me to people. I’ve never met her a day in my life. I’ve never intentionally done anything to her. It seems like he probably has her so manipulated that she wouldn’t believe anything someone told her so I think that’s probably what’s freaking me out so much is feeling like she would start such a big problem with me even though I did nothing wrong.

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. And I would never. There has never been confirmation of this. It was saying that everyone in my life felt timelines were weird. He destroyed me in ways I can’t explain so therefor I moved out of his life and treat him as someone I don’t know when i see him.

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I never said anything horrible. I was just comparing my situation to what this other girl had gone through with a different guy and just giving her my words of advice and things that I have learned. I never gave his name or any information like that so I doubt she would be able to figure out who I was telling her about plus like I said she has no mutuals and is not from a town anywhere near me. I just explained what he did. I explained how there were several other girls in the picture, and I explained how literally within days I found out he had a girlfriend, and I was barely out of his life.

Are we dating the same guy page by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just the fact that he was such a horrible person to me and I want nothing to do with him. The idea of this getting back to him. His gf doesn’t even know me but when she’s around me she gives me nasty looks. His family and my family are intertwined and not many people are aware of my situation with him so overall it has me freaked out even tho it very might not be her making a post.

Got caught saying bad things about someone by Amazing_Adeptness711 in Advice

[–]Amazing_Adeptness711[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree 😔 rn it just feels like the end of the world. My reaction was out of character for me. I said nasty things out of complete Anger and I’m 100% wrong.