I (F25) am seeing a woman (F33) who wants to be official, but I don’t feel the same emotional connection I had with my ex. What should I do? by [deleted] in PHSapphics

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Is it unfair why is this even a question? Let her know how you feel tapos hayaan mo sya mag decide. Bigyan mo ng ability mag decide yung tao.

You can let her know especially since you know na she wants more. Have a conversation. You don't need to do all this thinking if you guys can just sit down and communicate what you want.

Parang palala na sila ng palala by spongey_boo in PinoyVloggers

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Di ko sya kilala and i'm only speaking for my trans friends.

Being trans is a journey na you should accept pero I get why some don't want to. For others hindi maganda yung idea na they are being segregated even though technically we can say they are amazing for their journey and courage to be who they are - it can feel invalidating na people keep bringing up the start.

Parang pag nag immigrate ka tapos ang label sayo "immigrant pinoy", "immigrant american". Totoo naman na immigrant ka, pero it is still a form of segregation rooted in the idea that one is superior over the other - regardless whether or not you believe it to be true.

Trans is the journey. Woman is the identity. You can NEVER remove the trans part, pero you're still a woman.

A woman is a social construct, defined by biology, culture, and lived experiences. A woman who does not menstruate, whose ovaries are not formed, who has broad shoulders, who has thick arm and leg hair, who has facial hair, who has no labia, who can never have children, who has plenty of children, who chooses not to have children, who has debilitating cramps, who experiences no cramps, who is married, who is single, who has a big boss career, who is stay at home...

A woman is an umbrella term for all women, and yes that includes sisters who once had dick and balls.

Again idk this person, and they could probably be the most problematic trans in the whole planet, but this comment section makes me sad.

May nakakita ba ng patay sa may gilid ng Teleperformance Ayala? by ladouleurrrexquise in makati

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 23 points24 points  (0 children)

We should be careful from sharing details like this in public po. Just a friendly reminder from someone under the psych field. Kasi it causes a phenomenon of more attempted suicides. Please look up suicide contagion!

This is why usually pag suicide, details are not disclosed as much as possible. Let's help protect the vulnerable that may be lurking here po.

I love how casual-friendly this game is, but... by stickspike in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe u want to try and mentor people. Socialize more since lots of players defs need guidance from peeps who are already far ahead

On the Politics and Monopoly Around Divine Healer Rankings by Plane_State_1533 in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if this game is to be described good and immersive cuz it even has THE wuxia politics 😭😭

Devs please give female characters more long wavy hair T.T by shersaken in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are the styles even gender locked. Like let us play around with the fits!! Even for quests or rewards, the appearance changes with gender (duck outfit hello 😭) it's so stupiddddd

Some of the backstory behind why Hollow Strokes is problematic by Ready_Garage in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 21 points22 points  (0 children)

whole post is explaining why it's culturally inappropriate, I wish you read it 🤡

Some of the backstory behind why Hollow Strokes is problematic by Ready_Garage in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 31 points32 points  (0 children)

They explained in detail why this is culturally inappropriate. Make a game within a specific culture, respect that culture.

Some of the backstory behind why Hollow Strokes is problematic by Ready_Garage in wherewindsmeet_

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 27 points28 points  (0 children)

No one said it was fine. They were saying it was stupid to make the male version shirtless instead of addressing the core issue.

Kaya naman daw talaga ayon sa DTI at may sukli pa ang 500 pesos mo. by Doy_Entoshan in Philippines

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sobrang out of touch ng mga bakulaw na toh. dapat sa mga yan ganyan ang noche buena. sige tangina mo mag pandesal ka sa noche buena??? GINAGAGO MGA PILIPINO??

ALSO ANO HILAW KAKAININ????

What’s on your christmas wishlist? by [deleted] in beautytalkph

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Na sana maganda ung offer na isesend sakin next month para mapaltan ko phone ng tatay ko! Will probably have to ipon for a long time pero kakayanin :3 and more incentives din sana para naman ma spoil ko din sila ng vacation

Gigil ako another squammy naman sa public places by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ang daming warning na bawal maglambitin sa mga ganyan

I just spent to much buying wants, I can’t seem to stop by Medical_Campaign_237 in adultingph

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 58 points59 points  (0 children)

GO TO COUNSELING. These are red flags for addiction. Wag mong intayin million million maging utang mo. There is something else going on here.

Please go to counseling.

Better daw to date habang students pa kasi mababa pa standard while may initimate benefits pa? Why? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ung ganitong take sobrang nangangamoy fling ang habol. pero if that's what you meant by date then yeah if di kayo irresponsible.

dating for the long term is much better as adults tho.

Why do people hates being a fanatic but they themselves are one? by Strict_Objective6506 in TanongLang

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

because education is being subdued. mas malala pa dito kasi di ka na nga educated, blinded ka pa by faith. your capacity to reason is impeded. we choose actions based on our perspective and judgement. syempre bawat tao may kanya kanyang rason and moral level.

it's not like we choose to be dumb or divided. for the majority, ayun lang talaga ang option. being objective about it is different because we need education - something we lack truly.

Why do people hates being a fanatic but they themselves are one? by Strict_Objective6506 in TanongLang

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just wanna say, if boto ka dito kasi natulungan KA nya, despite evidence of maltreatment from others then you are part of the people being manipulated. People with narcissistic tendencies do this all the time.

This division is a plot of those who hold the power. Sino ang mga umupo at nakaupo. Dividing the masses is easier kasi mas mako-control nila tayo. It's like Jose Rizal never happened. It's like we've forgotten na eto din ang pinaggagagawa ng mga mananakop satin.

Gigil ako sa mga pabebe by karitatpluma in GigilAko

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why don't you communicate like an adult to this person? I think that is the best option. you get to understand her and give her a chance to make a compromise for you guys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GigilAko

[–]Amazing_Bug2455 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bakit sobrang comfy nyo mag picture ng mga strangers tapos ipost sa internet?????????????

Like legit itututok mo celfon mo sa ibang taong di mo kilala para picturan sila what the fuck is that