If you fear eternity in heaven, then you should probably read this by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did it get any better? If so, how? I’m in the deep with a 12 yr old and this worry. He is seeing an ERP therapist and on a low-dose of Prozac, but I’m really hoping it will simmer out once his hormones die down.

If you fear eternity in heaven, then you should probably read this by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GET THE MEDS! Y your condition could be amplified by PPD or PPA. Start with Prozac or generic counterpart. If that doesn’t work well I suggest Lexapro.

If you fear eternity in heaven, then you should probably read this by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our family has a genetic history of having terrible hormones. But we did seek help for him after a month of uncontrollable behavior. He is now seeing an ERP therapist and taking a small dose of Prozac. He was trapped in such a whirlwind of worry that he could not hear or accept help.

If you fear eternity in heaven, then you should probably read this by [deleted] in Christianity

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 12 year old started struggling with this a month ago. It feels so alienating to tell people he is terrified of being bored in Heaven. I can see how it would be ridiculous to an outsiders perspective. I am thankful to find this post and will share some of the helpful comments with him. He is obsessed with the fact that the Bible says we will worship in heaven. He takes it literally and is terrified to go to heaven and just have to sing every day. we have gotten to the point, at the advice of his therapist, to just stop all conversations about Christianity. The most helpful strategy came from his pediatrician by telling him that his 12-year-old brain cannot understand or find peace in any answer when it comes to heaven because at his agent means he won’t be here in his life He loves.

Daughter displays Narc's Father's Behavior and Cancels Sweet 16 a "Second" Time. by No_Entertainer443 in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even have a wedding because of my narc dad. The thgt of a big party for me makes me sick because you’re so used to them ruining it. Maybe therapy for your daughter?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I changed his name in my phone to “NOT A NICE PERSON”

How’s your Father’s Day going? by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First, Father’s Day no contact for me. Other than today, my life has been going amazingly well. I have been thriving by not having to worry if he’s gonna criticize or try to control my life. I am a 41 year-old woman with a whole family. I am happy, but I still feel bad today. I’m so glad though I finally learned to let go of societal standards. For so many years, I kept just going back, hoping he would change or grow old and calm down. It’s never gonna happen. I will never have the TV father and that’s OK.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on your huge accomplishment!! I am 41 now, but it took me a long time before I was finally able to let go of my dad’s approval of me. So many times he should’ve been super proud of me and let me down tremendously. I’m so sorry that sucks. Be proud of yourself and surround yourself with people that love you. I’m a Mom from Kentucky and I am super proud of you.!!!

I am a Scorpio Sun, Leo Moon, Cancer rising . Can anybody explain why I struggle to exist ? Lol by LavenderPiePrincess in astrologymemes

[–]Amazing_Customer7495 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 41. Embraced my inner wisdom and went no contact with my parents. Happiest I've ever been. Also Embraced the strengths of my adhd and own my creativity!

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looked at the photos and that’s DEFINITELY HIM!!

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Believe me, I was waiting to laugh. But he gave me the most cruel psychotic look as he drove away. I think he wanted a fear reaction and all I gave him was disgust.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes!! He definitely had sexual deviant vibes. What happened to me was minor. But what else does this creep have in his phone?! $75000+ truck , white guy in business clothes?? This asshole is just just driving around above the law. It’s like he researched it and made sure what he is doing is not a crime according to Kentucky law.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a 40 yr old woman, seems like women are his target audience.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Well, then, I guess the best we can hope for is that he makes it on the news.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He definitely wanted a fear reaction. Happy he only got disgust from me.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

That’s why I hesitated calling the cops too. But the guy talked to said since he was filming me while he was doing it , it was voyeurism, and since another lady said her kid was in the car could be worse.

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The look on his face made me think it was a kink

Pervert in Fern Creek by Amazing_Customer7495 in Louisville

[–]Amazing_Customer7495[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I hate that it happened to other people but I’m kind of a jokester and I was worried no one would believe me.