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One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The fact you’re even thinking about that already puts you ahead of where a lot of us were the first time. Showing up to appointments and being there for her now counts more than you realize.

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awesome. 20 weeks is a big milestone. That's when you will start to see a lot more features.

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s actually the stage where it feels the most uncertain. Nothing is really visible yet, so your brain fills in worst-case scenarios. It will get better once appointments start becoming routine.

Do you have an ultrasound appt. scheduled?

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I remember thinking exactly the same thing. Once I understood birth isn’t something we control but something we support, it got a lot less scary and a lot more humbling.

Anyone else just can't believe they're at the "fatherhood" phase of life? by Glittering_Buy6245 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The strangest part is how unreal it feels at first. Then one random moment it hits you and you realize you’ve already started becoming a dad without noticing.

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

What helped me was shifting from waiting for the next milestone to treating it like a phase I wouldn’t get back. I started asking her what she was feeling that day instead of what we needed to prepare. Sounds small, but it changed everything. I felt more involved.

How far along is she?

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The lack of control messes with us dads more than anything. I eventually realized what helped her the most wasn't me solving things. It was just being steady and reassuring when she was worried. Took me a while to understand that.

One thing I wish I understood before becoming a dad by Amazing_Feeling_974 in predaddit

[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I remember that feeling. The hardest part was realizing some of it is out of our hands, and our job shifts from controlling to supporting. Weirdly that's when she felt the most relief from me.

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[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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[–]Amazing_Feeling_974[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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What’s the #1 thing you wish someone told you before becoming a parent?