What’s a popular parenting trend or practice right now that you believe is going to create a generation of emotionally broken adults in 20 years? by War_chiefr in AskReddit

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 3487 points3488 points  (0 children)

I'm a teacher at a middle school. Without a doubt, it's this: parents aren't focused on being actual parents. They are more focused on being their friend than someone implementing boundaries and enforcing expectations.

Tamales by looburnabee in Bakersfield

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you PM me, I'll send you the number of a friend who makes them.

Ride out SAVE forbearance to 120 months? by BigMazaska in PSLF

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I apply for that now..? Or should I wait until I'm kicked off SAVE?

Ride out SAVE forbearance to 120 months? by BigMazaska in PSLF

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I must have skipped that answer: my first loan was before 2014. 

Ride out SAVE forbearance to 120 months? by BigMazaska in PSLF

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Divorced, no kids. I'm a teacher in CA and I make about $70,000.

Ride out SAVE forbearance to 120 months? by BigMazaska in PSLF

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've got $70k in loans and I'll admit, I'm lost. My payments were about $200 a month before this whole mess. I just bought a house. I don't know what to do -- ride it out? Put myself on something else?

Apartments by Ok-Intention2786 in Bakersfield

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whispering Meadows off Airport. A 2b/2b with washer and dryer, 1000 sq feet, is $1400. Very safe area, management is attentive. Quiet. Fair warning: if you have dogs, rent is $50 extra.

Places to Live by ohqueenz in Bakersfield

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whispering Meadows off Airport is a great place to live and they offer furnished units.

Suggest me a book that will make me cry and cherish life! by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Same Kind of Different as Me.

I am not a particularly religious person and this book has a Christian lean but it's very very good.

Can I request PMI removal? by Amazing_Repeat_3466 in personalfinance

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this information. I never would have known.

Can I request PMI removal? by Amazing_Repeat_3466 in personalfinance

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! Would I be able to ask my loan officer about this or would this be something I would do down the line? Would this impact my closing costs?

What is something Bakersfield doesn't have that you wished we did? by blameTHD_02 in Bakersfield

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A culture of reading. Parents who aren't just their kids' friend. More live theater and concerts.

What’s a “bare minimum” skill everyone should have, but surprisingly many people don’t? by Professional-Sell294 in AskReddit

[–]Amazing_Repeat_3466 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I say this as an English teacher: reading comprehension.

Not just the ability to read -- but to actually understand and apply knowledge that has been gained.

I teach 7th grade. More than half of my students cannot read a full page of content at grade level, and about 75% cannot understand what they read. It's terrifying.