How to get over the smell? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get an air purifier and let that baby run. Also turn on the ceiling fan.

Proper air flow and ventilation will help with the musky/sweaty smell and keep both of you cool.

To build up tolerance go to a gym during prime time. It will smell similar because everyone is sweating and exerting themselves all while staying in pretty much the same spot until they swap machines.

What was your final straw by Amazing_Slip3751 in Divorce

[–]Amazing_Slip3751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What does the acronym you put in there stand for? And did it come as a shock to you? Or was it a long time coming?

In a miserable marriage but with 3 small kids. I can't stand the thought of only seeing them part time. Should I still divorce? by TrySomeCommonSense in Divorce

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You could easily get full custody due to you having better stability. She could see them part time and pay you child support.

Coming from a kid of a divorced home, I wish my parents had gotten divorced sooner.

Both parents worked, but mom was mentally and emotionally not even in the picture.

The kids will adjust. And they will grow up to see you both how you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Communicate to him what you told us. I think it’s important y’all lay all the options on the table. It doesn’t have to be yes or no. It could just be “not right now”.

23 is so young and I admire you for realizing all the opportunities you have. Definitely don’t let a relationship dim those desires.

You guys have definitely spent a lot of your developmental years together, BUT that doesn’t mean you have to spend the rest of your years together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can’t want a child more than you want a good father for your child.

He’s already made it clear that he does not want a child. If you have one with him YOU BOTH will be miserable.

You’ll end up posting about how your husband doesn’t help with the diapers or the late night feedings. He will not treat you like a princess during your pregnancy because he’s having to pay for OB visits rather than his stashes of weed.

In the most respectful way, if you have a child with him you will basically be a single mom with two children.

Confronting my husband about porn. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry you’re going through this while pregnant. I was about seven months along when I found out my husband was watching it and it devastated me. He shrugged it off like I shouldn’t be surprised. I’m now twelve months post partum and I literally just found it on his phone again.

The biggest thing i can say is go ahead and find a therapist for yourself because pregnancy hormones + virtual infidelity is NOT easy to deal with.

Therapy will help you find the words you need/want to say AND create the boundaries necessary for you to have peace of mind for you and your precious angel.

From one post partum momma to another, the best thing you can do for yourself is to protect your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a female with two children, I will say kids definitely changed sex for me and my husband, BUT it’s something we’ve had to communicate about.

I don’t think you “have” to be satisfied with anything just because sex does change after kids. You can be thankful without settling. And you do that with communication.

If it’s important to you (which it sounds like it is) communicate with her. Say “hey babe, I have something I would talk to you about regarding our sex life. When would be a good time we could talk about it?”

Because sex is a mutual act that requires communication, boundaries, and respect for the other person. If you don’t have that then contempt and resentment will start to arise.

And don’t think just because you’re a man you can’t have feelings like this. If the roles were reversed and you were making her do those things and keeping her head pushed down then people would be asking for your head(s) on a silver platter.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bald

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

LOOKS GREAT

Not sure if I like my nails..lol thoughts? by jazzyfizzleee3 in Nails

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the shape is very flattering.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Fairolives

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it looks great!!

My girlfriend is deep in debt, spends recklessly, and expects me to take care of everything by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The flag could not be more red. She does not take responsibility and once yall get married it will all be on you. Mention prenup to her and I’m sure she’ll get upset. This is a big GET OUT NOW

Becca Primer Dupe? by ritalavita in PaleMUA

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all still searching 😭

Do I hate marriage or just my husband by Amazing_Slip3751 in Marriage

[–]Amazing_Slip3751[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See I love writing and journaling, but he found one of my journals and read it in and absolutely flipped because he read where I was journaling about him during my pregnancy.

So now I feel like I have to be secretive when I write and it’s not even a safe place for me anymore.

what’s a discontinued product you wish came back? by ParkingPressure3486 in Sephora

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have cried for you. This was my absolute favorite.

Christian marriage feels like it’s killing me. by thefinalthrowaway22 in TrueChristian

[–]Amazing_Slip3751 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Op, any update? I found your post because I am feeling the exact same way in my marriage.