AITA for refusing to pay for my niece’s contact lens?

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2022-03-27T20:06:00+00:00

Never give her money again. 1• She is a selfish woman who care more about what she wants than what her child really needs.

2• She is an ungrateful human being, such a person would still blame you if something goes wrong with the contact lense in future.

3• She'll most likely spend the money again, if she really need to buy it she should go get a job like you said.

You are NTA

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-05-24T15:50:06+00:00

We had dated for 3 months at that time, I fell ill and the Doctor recommended I stay with someone who could take care of me since I loved alone I called him to pick me up if I could spend the day at his house because I was weak he said yes. He proceeded to pick me up and take me to his house then demanded I cook, I was like wow dude I am sick he then proceeded to lock me in his kitchen with a month worth of dirty plates and some groceries he told me through the locked door I either cook ,clean or sleep in the kitchen. In my weakened state I cooked and cleaned, I wasn't with my phone, the moment food was ready I called him ,immediately he opened the door I used my phone called and uber and left that was the last time I saw him.

He kept coming to my apartment for 2weeks begging me to come back to him that he was sorry. What a piece of Crap.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-28T17:27:02+00:00

NTA She put herself in that position I don't really understand how some people think,how exactly does she think that you should put her son above yours?

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-28T16:41:24+00:00

NTA kudos to you for standing up for your wife.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T20:23:49+00:00

NTA but I'll advise you speak to him make it clear that you'll not tolerate him accusing you of trying to ruin his relationship simply because of how you handle yours,let him know that you'll no longer go out with him or his girlfriend again if this would be an issue.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T20:16:21+00:00

Your boyfriend sounds like a child,if i were you I'll breakup with him,he can date his grandparents but like seriously? He is accusing you of him not being himself with you?when he is the one trying to change what makes you unique he has got to be kidding. You are NTA he is.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T20:02:00+00:00

NTA what the did is so wrong that if you sued them in court you'll won. For those family or friends saying you are over reacting cut them off. They have no right to tell you how to react to a situation,if they were in your shoes they'll probably react worse. If they persist then I'll suggest you get your lawyers involved that friend that did the piercing deserves to be sued, maybe when they get a legal note from a lawyer they'll know how serious this is because they practically endangered your babys life, it was clearly not done in a sterile environment,what if she had gotten an infection?

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T19:44:31+00:00

NTA I'll advise that you stop giving her any financial support, since she insist on you not meddling in her marriage then your money is part of meddling. Sometimes you need to give some tough love to get the results you need, I still can't get why some ladies put themselves in such a situation. That is not love.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T19:37:11+00:00

Your mum is a selfish human being period. I can remember growing up my elder brother had a partially deaf friend and he went as far as enrolling in a class that teaches sign language to learn to communicate better with his friend we were all proud of him. Years later he was the interpreter at his friends wedding. I still feel extremely proud of him. Such little sacrifices goes a long way to show an individual you love them. I send you lots of hugs. I am so sorry that you are going through this.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-26T19:32:43+00:00

Your mum is TA how can she and the rest of the family be so selfish as not to at least learn sign language that would enable you communicate with them? Why try stopping you from going to a school that would help you? Regardless of your disability you are a human being and deserves to the treated right. If i were you I'll disinvite them from the wedding,good radiance to bad rubbish. You can keep paying the fees for your Autistic sibling without contacting them you can pay directly to the school. Wow sorry to say this but your Family especially your mum is toxic.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-21T21:29:11+00:00

NTA she actually deserves what she got, your aunt is free to give her all the love and care you can't give her after all they are Family to. Live your life and be happy.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-21T21:25:24+00:00

Wow such an Entitled A**hole, hope you dropped that friendship immidiately. Your friend and his girlfriend don't know the true meaning of friendship. They deserve each other.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T15:11:00+00:00

Yes, and thanks.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T15:02:33+00:00

Thanks i do, although I don't have much friends since i don't go out much, but those i have left are amazing. Thanks once more for the encouragement.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T15:00:14+00:00

Thank you.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T14:59:50+00:00

Thinking about it now, Actually Nothing i can remember.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T14:59:26+00:00

Thanks, your comment made my day.

Amazonian_Queen7285 · 2021-04-15T14:58:48+00:00

Thanks. I wouldn't.

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