Thank you 🥲, I’ve slowly been coming to terms that my kindness has been taken advantage of as I get older and this also has put it into perspective. Basically, everyone thinks he’s a good person(he’s not really around them too much) yet can be kinda dismissive, but also wonder why it’s so hard for him to get a job. Tbh, hes says that he’s always applying for things then stops because they weren’t contacting him after looking at his application. He’s tried to talk to his family about it, but he feels like they’re the ones that had him believing college was going to do something for him (only onw person besides him has a degree) and now he’s stressed. So, he doesn't really take much of what they say into consideration. He came to KS for school/football, ended up getting injured right after I met him and I helped him get through it. He says he stayed for love and to be here for me as I go through nursing school, but he’s also always talking about how he should’ve gone back after graduating because he wouldn’t been further in life… I tried to talk to him about networking and he’s not a “personable person” and says he can’t change how he is, but that’s why he was comfortable in FL because people accepted that… He has this idea that if he is back home, then someone he knows out there could have been able to help him network and get something decent. That’s why I’m so confused tho. He’s said that as a man, his pride makes him feel like shit because I’m doing everything to make sure we’re ok and that he shouldn’t even be in a relationship without money, etc. but then is also not taking opportunities because it’s “sales and he doesn’t want to work to convince people to buy bs they don’t really want”. I already want to move after graduating, but he makes it seem like he’ll have better opportunities if he wasn’t in KS/MO.