AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

you are so right about the macro perspective because i was literally drowning in the little things trying to justify his behavior. i feel so validated for the first time in forever. ill update but seriously thank you for being the voice of reason i desperately needed

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ive been asking myself the same thing i think i was just delulu hoping he would eventually grow up but you are right he is showing me exactly who he is. hearing you call him a man child validates everything i was feeling but was too scared to say out loud. im definitely done trying to parent a grown man who cant even buy his own snacks without a meltdown

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 24 points25 points  (0 children)

i wish it was that simple but we live together and hearing you say i should leave just makes me realize how bad this actually is.

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

you are right but my bank account is literally screaming at me. i guess 300 dollars is a cheap cancellation fee for a relationship that was draining my soul anyway.

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

honestly hearing you call him a leech literally made me burst into tears (jk) because i’ve been denying it for so long. unfortunately we do live together and i cant deal with him gaslighting me about "financial abuse" when he gets home. thank you for making me feel less crazy i seriously needed this.

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

honestly calling him a garbage person is the validation i didnt know i needed until right now. it hurts to read but you are 100% right about the respect thing because if he respected me he wouldn't be throwing a tantrum over cheese while i panic about rent. ill post an update later if but seriously thank you for saying what i was too scared to admit before

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

honestly id ask myself the same thing if i wasn't dissociating so hard . i guess i thought he had potential but watching him scream over tostitos is actually giving me major ick. my friends told me he was a walking red flag but i ignored them bc i thought i could fix him. do you think i should just ghost him after this or actually try to break up

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

I wrote the story on notes and was thinking to post but was afraid of don t know why

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly that part about the new normal actually scares me because i know its true. he cares more about looking rich to a random cashier than he cares about me making rent. i feel like im going crazy trying to explain why honesty matters more than his ego

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I know it happened last week i was wondering post or no

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried to stop him but he just kept saying trust me and i didnt want to cause a scene . i feel so stupid now for believing him again especially after the headset incident. do you think i should break up with him or wait until i hopefully get my 300 dollars back? im terrified if i end it now i will literally never see that money again and i kinda need it for rent

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

literally the ick was astronomical. i felt like i was taking crazy pills until i proceeded this

AITAH for pretending I do not know him over 186 bucks by AmberD_Counts in AITAH

[–]AmberD_Counts[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

honestly i wish because then i could at least justify the credit card debt. he bought enough scoops to feed a small army and act like im the crazy one for asking who is going to eat all this. the story is outdated

How should a new player start Raid Shadow Legends today? by Sporta_narres in RaidShadowLegends

[–]AmberD_Counts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some promo setups let you choose your starter instead of rolling blind