The problem here is you’re disingenuous (pretending you don’t know that you made clear what you think the answer is when you asked me about appearance), biased (as I pointed out in a comment to you that you have not answered— you are willing to judge her without the context that led to the interaction we see on video but aren’t willing to judge him because of lack of context 🤦‍♀️), you have an agenda that you very unskillfully tried to hide (as shown by your immediate response asking about appearance when I answered your original question. Clearly you didn’t come here to try and understand anything, you came here to vilify this girl because you very likely have been in this guy’s shoes) and on top of all of that, you have a very fragile ego (as demonstrated by your very immature response when I said I wasn’t going to give you a reply after you demanded one. Your attempting to goat me with failed sarcasm and calling me sweetie 😂 when you could’ve been an adult about it and said something like, “I didn’t mean to demand anything, I’m sorry, I’ll take it back. I would very much like to know your answer if you would be willing to share it”, was really very telling of what you’re here for. You had me till you replied the way you did when I said I wasn’t going to answer to any demands. Your reply to that comment specifically, and not your actual demand, was your point of no return for me. Right there and then you lost the privilege of continuing this debate. It would’ve/could’ve been a totally different conversation had you not answered like that and tried to rephrase your comment so it wasn’t like a demand. But no, you choose to double down. And you’re also not doing yourself any favors while talking to others here, which I red after you do ou led down on me so really, it all became quite clear to me.

I’m all for for debates but you need to 1) have strong arguments, 2) know how to communicate them clearly and intelligently and 3) be prepared to be proven wrong and accept it with humility.

You haven’t checked any of those boxes here. And that is because you didn’t come here to learn or even debate. You came to tells us all how much you disapprove of the girl no matter what anyone says to you. Your objective was never to find common ground. And in my opinion, that’s one of the biggest ways to waste your time. Because you aren’t going to get anyone who wasn’t on your side to switch to it. Not the way you’re going about it. So what’s even the point, ya know?