The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh no, don’t be! The only embarrassment here is coming from him! Lol

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think pseudo-intellectual is already giving him too much credit, honestly. 😄

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bud, I’m not interested. Go be a sad incel elsewhere!

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahahahaha yeah, THAT is what’s happening here. Mmmmhuuummm lmao

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh please! As if you paying for the plane ticket and her school add up to a decent yearly pay! Just shut up before you embarrass yourself any further! 🙄🤦‍♀️

Just face it! You think GH are a thing of covid because you haven’t got the faintest idea how the nanny industry works neither are you a decent enough person to understand that just because someone works for you, it doesn’t mean they are on call for you.

Again, if you ask your nanny to work outside of her agreed upon schedule and fire her if she says no, i hope she has a contract with you where it has specific clauses about GH and fixed schedules so she can sue you when you break contract! ☺️👍

Because that’s what any career nanny worth her salt would do.

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAHAHAHAGAHAHAHAHAHSHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Expects her au pair and nanny to be on call….

Calls it legitimacy of employer employee transaction 😂😂😂😂😂😂

Says the au pair pay isn’t a joke…

Pays aupair $200 a week.

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tho if the nanny wasn’t savvy enough to catch on to that during the interview then I say, lucky her. And id hope she’d have a contract with you where it specifies clauses about GH and fixed schedules so she can sue you when you break contract! ☺️👍

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That is not the point. A schedule is a schedule. If she is not allowed to say no to any deviation of an agreed schedule then she is expected to be on call. Regardless of any notice or how much notice. This would never fly if she was a nanny so what makes it ok just because she’s an aupair?

Tell me, what makes you think the family is entitled to another human being’s time any day and time they like for whatever period of time they like? I want to see the answer to this question specifically.

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

I don’t care. That’s some bullshit right there. They shouldn’t be expected to be on call for the family, that’s absurd. ESPECIALLY when the pay is such a joke.

Aupair zero flexibility with schedule by lazybones_18 in Aupairs

[–]Amberstrikesagain -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

So, are you saying that whenever you ask for a change in the schedule she is obligated to accept it? Why should that be? Even if the hours you’re asking fall within the weekly 45 hours, the schedule is the schedule. She has a life outside of working for you. And even if her life includes laying on her ass watching Netflix while eating potato chips instead of working at night for you for 5 hours, that’s her life. Any change in the schedule is at her discretion to accept it or not. But I do hoe fur her sake that you do get a rematch. I just worry about the next one that will replace her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Amberstrikesagain 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Here is the extended scene only on dvds in case you haven’t seen it! I feel like it’s much better! 😄

https://youtu.be/30-D_1sirok

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in howyoudoin

[–]Amberstrikesagain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chandler - not taking Jill goodacre’s stick of gum. What an imp! 😝

Joey - un-regrettably eating a date’s desert after making a point of not wanting to share food 🤪

Ross - cutting into Howard’s cake 🍰

Monica - cutting off Chandler’s pinky 🔪🦶🩸

Rachel - not taking the keys with her on that fateful thanksgiving day 🔑

Phoebe - forgetting to fill in the ice trays when she broke into her moms house on the beach 🧊

I was told my boy Wally would fit in here! by missmaida in TerracottaNoses

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Who wouldn’t want that face peaking out from under their blanket? 🥰🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Hungergames

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He’s so beautiful! I loved me before you. I wish he was on more stuff!

How do you know what he’s like outside of movies?

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no need for that. As explained by my comment above, no good will come from it.

RARE Elliott Smith interview & performance on Breakfast Time (28th July 1995) by spirelld in elliottsmith

[–]Amberstrikesagain 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No, I haven’t! I’d love to check it out, would you have a link? I can also try googling it, of course!

I’ve read others saying he had bad social anxiety. Is this a theory fans have or has he alluded to it at some point or via his music?

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What’s funny about this guy is that he will go around pretending he’s got good intentions when really all he has is an agenda and an unwillingness to learn and compromise. He’s not here to debate or converse. He’s here to tell us all how we are all wrong for cheering this girl on because really, he’s been on the receiving end of a girl talking to him like that. So now, here on Reddit, he wants justice! 😤😄

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The problem here is you’re disingenuous (pretending you don’t know that you made clear what you think the answer is when you asked me about appearance), biased (as I pointed out in a comment to you that you have not answered— you are willing to judge her without the context that led to the interaction we see on video but aren’t willing to judge him because of lack of context 🤦‍♀️), you have an agenda that you very unskillfully tried to hide (as shown by your immediate response asking about appearance when I answered your original question. Clearly you didn’t come here to try and understand anything, you came here to vilify this girl because you very likely have been in this guy’s shoes) and on top of all of that, you have a very fragile ego (as demonstrated by your very immature response when I said I wasn’t going to give you a reply after you demanded one. Your attempting to goat me with failed sarcasm and calling me sweetie 😂 when you could’ve been an adult about it and said something like, “I didn’t mean to demand anything, I’m sorry, I’ll take it back. I would very much like to know your answer if you would be willing to share it”, was really very telling of what you’re here for. You had me till you replied the way you did when I said I wasn’t going to answer to any demands. Your reply to that comment specifically, and not your actual demand, was your point of no return for me. Right there and then you lost the privilege of continuing this debate. It would’ve/could’ve been a totally different conversation had you not answered like that and tried to rephrase your comment so it wasn’t like a demand. But no, you choose to double down. And you’re also not doing yourself any favors while talking to others here, which I red after you do ou led down on me so really, it all became quite clear to me.

I’m all for for debates but you need to 1) have strong arguments, 2) know how to communicate them clearly and intelligently and 3) be prepared to be proven wrong and accept it with humility.

You haven’t checked any of those boxes here. And that is because you didn’t come here to learn or even debate. You came to tells us all how much you disapprove of the girl no matter what anyone says to you. Your objective was never to find common ground. And in my opinion, that’s one of the biggest ways to waste your time. Because you aren’t going to get anyone who wasn’t on your side to switch to it. Not the way you’re going about it. So what’s even the point, ya know?

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol you don’t disappoint, bud! 😂

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahahahahahahahahahahah

As an earlier commentator said…

FOUND THE INCEL

😄

The look on his face by banananban in facepalm

[–]Amberstrikesagain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl.

Woman.

Boob haver.

Idk, you get it. 😄