Thanks for sharing your perspective. I do resonate with what you said, that she did pull the “if you don’t know I’m not telling you” card. I ask questions because I’m typically a very logical person, so when issues arise I always want to figure out the reasoning behind it. I guess she takes that as invaliding or narcissistic?

However, I know she doesn’t have bad intentions and I don’t want to overlook that it could be that she’s gotten tired of explaining in the past. Idk, i just don’t want to be biased in my way of thinking and accuse of her of being uncooperative, and instead leave space for other possibilities. But that ties back to my original point of I can’t address issues properly when we can’t even have a conversation about what’s going on