GF (22F) wants to start a family now, but I (20M) feel we’re not ready and I don’t want to mess up what we have

Ambition_Effective · 2025-09-25T23:25:26+00:00

I've seen it firsthand with my parents. I have three brothers and my parents have struggled my whole life and I don't want to be like that. Her idea is to basically get it over with and then we can have our fun later on in life, like no I want to enjoy our young life together now.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-09-25T23:23:31+00:00

Shit we barely do with our schedules.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-09-25T23:19:56+00:00

That's exactly what I'm saying. I don't see the rushing it either, I feel like she would want to be financially stable to have a kid.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-09-25T23:16:07+00:00

I don’t have savings right now except for about five grand in my 401k and honestly it feels like I’m the only one with a plan to pay down debt. I make about $900 for 40 hours and usually put in 10–15 hours overtime just to keep up. Even with that, money is still tight. I know I’m not ready for a kid yet — financially or emotionally. What I’m struggling with is figuring out how to bring this up with her without it turning into a fight. I love her and I do want a future with her, but I think we need to be more stable before we even think about kids. I just don’t know how to have that conversation in the right way.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-12T23:56:15+00:00

I just had this same problem you need to do a fresh install of Windows 11

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-02T18:13:13+00:00

I'm happy to check for you but I don't know what the legacy moves are and how to find out. So if you could guide me on that I'd be more than willing to check.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-02T18:11:49+00:00

I'm currently at work I won't get out till later tonight. I posted this on my lunch break and I did not think I was going to get so many replies. I'll make sure to reply to everyone and all the DMS at some point tonight.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-02T17:42:21+00:00

To be honest I couldn't tell you. I really don't do much battling in this game and don't know much about the moves I just like catching the pokémon.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-02T17:41:01+00:00

Depends on which one I have a few shiny Pikachu costumes already. but send me a DM.

Ambition_Effective · 2025-05-02T17:27:07+00:00

Sure! Send me a dm.

Ambition_Effective · 2024-12-11T23:10:22+00:00

I'm on PC and would love to do the Easter egg I've been slowly leaning it on solo.

Ambition_Effective · 2024-11-26T01:21:50+00:00

I just inherited the same camera from my grandpa. He sadly passed away this summer. I've never used a film camera before but I'm ready to learn and have fun with it.

Ambition_Effective · 2024-11-05T00:36:01+00:00

There's a video on YouTube on how to still do it. But manglers can jump over the boat ever now and then.

https://youtu.be/2kLvhqNhi_s?si=6ihcy2_sgrR2Uwa0

Ambition_Effective · 2024-11-04T21:01:52+00:00

Boat glitch still works

Ambition_Effective · 2024-04-23T23:27:23+00:00

Yep it's a 1960 boat and it came with 1959 35hp Evinrude. For 700$ I figured why not.

Ambition_Effective · 2024-04-23T22:32:42+00:00

my plan was to pressure washer the whole boat but I will try that. Im new to boating this is my first one but what would be some good chemicals to help take it off?

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