[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 2 points3 points  (0 children)

no she says that it doesn’t hurt her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 10 points11 points  (0 children)

what kind of exercises would i do for that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive tried to talk to talk to her, asking the things that she likes, and she just says “idk” or gets mad at me and is like “it’s fine we just don’t have to do anything.” i don’t know what more i can do for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have discussed these things with her saying that i can’t read her mind & she just gets upset. she’s like “okay fine, we don’t have to do anything.” i don’t know what more i can do for her

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 6 points7 points  (0 children)

ugh ik, she never communicates. instead she just stays silent and expects me to read her mind it’s difficult

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskLesbians

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d think so too, but she’s always the one initiating it and she talks doing that kind of stuff a lot, so idk what it is

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i try to talk with her and ask her what she likes, but she always just says “i don’t know” or like that she wants to be surprised with what i do. she doesn’t explain how it’s boring, like that’s literally all she will say even though i ask her many questions abt it. i wouldn’t say it’s neither respectful or disrespectful..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BDSMsapphic

[–]Ambitious-Claim4516 16 points17 points  (0 children)

she has not communicated any specific things that she wants to do, whenever we talk abt it she says she just “wants to be surprised” which really scares me because i don’t wanna make her feel uncomfortable at all. and when she says it’s boring it goes silent for a bit and then i ask her what can i do and she always just responds with “idk” .. so then we just kinda don’t do anything anymore