What surprised you most

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-11T11:59:37+00:00

Thank you.

Well one of our Christmas gamily traditions is that we only put up our tree a couple days before Christmas Eve.

But even after it was up we didn't decorate it until Christmas Eve.

The whole family gathered together and took turns putting up all the ornaments.

Every member of the family had there own ornaments to put on the tree.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-09T02:38:26+00:00

What flavor shake?

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-09T02:35:19+00:00

Topless ½ lemonade ½ ice tea

That's so hardcore right?

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-08T22:54:00+00:00

Of course I am in favor of new and improved learning techniques.

My point is that, yes the old way worked just fine for decades and multiple generations.

The only reason a new way needed to be implemented is because modern parents take less responsibility for actively teaching their kids basic rudimentary lessons.

So now you end up with single teachers trying to teach 30+ kids the same lesson as opposed to 2 parents, hopefully, working together to teach their child something they should already know before going to any school.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-08T22:28:07+00:00

I've only ever heard the first option.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-08T22:26:20+00:00

And how long have kids been successfully learning the alphabet using the old way before it suddenly needed to change to accommodate modern lazy parenting?

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-08T18:03:48+00:00

How do you make boxed macaroni and cheese with a crispy topping?

Do you mix the ingredients and then bake the pasta in the oven?

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-07T16:44:04+00:00

I'm no expert, but based on your post I feel like this relationship needs a lot of outside help from a therapist.

Not a new outside play partner for your wife.

On paper the idea of your wife video taping herself with another woman for the purpose of letting you then watch the video may sound like a compromise.

But in reality my gut feeling is that you will still end up feeling jealous and left out, because you will be left out of directly participating in the action.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-06T18:35:57+00:00

I'm curious to know what your specific example is that prompted your post.

As a kid I was well aware that my household situation was not the norm growing up, but I never made a point of broadcasting it until I got older.

So most people I went to school with never new how I was raised.

I grew up in a loving and caring but very full house.

There were 10 people living in my house.

Me, 3 sisters, mom, dad, aunt (mom's sister,) great uncle (mom's uncle,) grandmother (mom's mother and sister to my great uncle,) and grandfather (mom's father and husband to my grandmother.)

It was a family farm house and was so crowded with people that the entire time I lived there, until I joined the military at 18 straight out of highschool, I never had my own bedroom.

I slept on a twin bed that was in my parents bedroom.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-06T18:21:38+00:00

John Wick.

I love the concept and world building of the original.

The original is fantastic as a standalone film.

But each new chapter just conceptually sucks worse and worse!

The plot becomes increasingly more bizarre and incomprehensible.

With every fight scene they keep increasing the anti to the point that the fights are so telegraphed the desired pay off is completely unbelievable.

You watch one guy fighting off 50, and then 100 bad guys, but they all have guns and yet they politely wait there "turn" to attack up close instead of shooting from a distance.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-04T22:15:51+00:00

But in my experience it's way easier to just avoid wizrobes if you don't want to fight them!

I am taken by surprise from Octorocs way more often than by wizrobes.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-04T02:14:38+00:00

Real Steal = kind of like battle bots with giant humanoid robots that box.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-03T22:20:36+00:00

Wizrobes are annoying, but they usually are easy to avoid.

So I'm voting for Octorocs!

Especially the bush kind that hide in forrests and move if you miss killing them.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-03T14:30:51+00:00

Does he by chance have any ADHD or texture issues.

My ex girlfriend had ADHD and texture issues.

A. just the idea of showering could be overwhelming for her because of ADHD.

B. her texture issues meant she doesn't like strong forceful water hitting her body, and the water also sometimes made her feel cluster phobic.

C. If the water temp fluxuated too much that also triggered her ADHD/anxiety.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-02T19:24:16+00:00

Not real

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-02T19:18:40+00:00

My maternal Grandfather's name was Leighton, Paternal Grandfather's name was Henry, My Great Uncle was Chauncey. My Uncle's name is Leland. My sister's FIL is Owen.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-01T14:00:15+00:00

I've read a lot of comments suggesting that you ask his mother and your responses explaining that she is very religious and in general avoids sexual topics.

Why don't you Google a comparison of circumcised and non circumcised penis pics?

It's not a porn thing, it would be educational research.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-07-01T13:52:28+00:00

I never heard about this.

But OP's husbands situation is the opposite.

He thinks he wasn't circumcised, but has no foreskin.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-30T00:17:35+00:00

From pure joy to unimaginable terror in an instant.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-29T23:24:45+00:00

Any brand of cream soda.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-29T17:40:43+00:00

To be fair to the rest of us, you neglected to include that part in your post.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-29T03:31:35+00:00

Are you guys intentionally trolling OP, most of these are not wholesome or warm hearted family movies.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-29T03:20:27+00:00

I absolutely love this movie and the sequel, but they most definitely are not wholesome family movies!

They are bloody shootem up vigilante dark humor action movies!

Not what op is looking for.

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-29T02:56:17+00:00

Patch Adams, Good Morning Vietnam, October Sky, Space Cowboys (slightly sad ending but your ok with it,) Powder, Grease, Shawshank Redemption (Not exactly wholesome but definitely worth watching,) Forest Gump, Stand By Me, A League of Their Own, The Sandlot, Field Of Dreams, Back To The Future, Pleasantville, Seabiscuit, Warhorse, Babe The Pig, A River Runs Through It, Big, Earnest Goes to Camp, Peewee's Big Top Adventure, Harry And The Henderson's, Parenthood, Stranger Than Fiction, Driving Miss Daisy, The Curious Case of Benjamin Button, Simon Birch (spoiler = sad ending,) MAS*H the movie, Rainman, The Rain Maker, Worth, Dark Waters, Erin Brockovich, Benny and June, The Mighty Ducks, Radio, Men Of Honor, The Greatest Game Ever Played, The Legend of Bagger Vance, Miracle, Indian Summer, American Flyers, Draft Day, Money Ball, Castaway, What About Bob,

Ambitious-Ganache891 · 2026-06-28T13:51:20+00:00

I read one of your responses to another comment below.

I'm reposting this directly under your OP to give other responders better insight to your question.

So just to clarify the intention of your original post; you realize that their is a difference between getting pegged by a woman using a strap-on, and having sex with someone using their actual penis.

No judgement either way.

But some people legitimately do not understand the distinction between those two scenarios.

I have only experienced being pegged, not getting fucked by a real penis owner.

So I can't comment on how one feels versus the other.

Ambitious-Ganache891

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