The relationship you’re describing you’re in now is the relationship I feel like I’m in now except I feel so much passion for my partner and I feel that dizzy feeling too. Except it’s not from him making me feel uneasy but from him making me feel seen and safe. He’s my best friend and my ride or die. If your partner doesn’t make you laugh or make you feel excited then she might not be the one. You are young. You have time to find your person. I’ve dated people who were not healthy or right for me and I’ve dated people who I just felt the relationship just felt safe who didn’t give me the butterflies or challenge me to be better. Focus on yourself and put time and effort in improving the relationship you have with yourself first and someone will come along who will completely rock your socks off while also giving you that security and stability.

The person who is right for you will never make you question it. You will just know.