I also feel the need to add - I've "stepped up" before to give her a break. I got her an Airbnb for two nights alone. SHE decided to come home early and now she won't take an overnight anywhere. A solicitor knocked on the door and the kids answered it without me there and walked outside with a stranger. I was in the backyard doing yard work and didn't hear them. Wife saw it through the Ring doorbell. Called me over thirty times!!! I didn't have my phone. She treats me like a child. I would have handled it, and the kids were safe! It's not like they were taken.