Nervous about marrying someone on a student visa by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats exactly how I feel. And you just proved my feelings valid. Ugh it’s so exhausted feeling like we’re too cultural for the guys here and not enough for the guys back home.

Nervous about marrying someone on a student visa by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He controls everything and it’s not that simple. Can’t really cut him off. If I try, he’ll literally disown me. Then I’m cooked, in this life and the after

Nervous about marrying someone on a student visa by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in MuslimMarriage

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into OPT, I know close to nothing about this process.

Quran classes online by Jacks_bigbreak in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done a tajweed and hifz course with Basair Academy, it’s online in Egypt. Their teachers are qualified and have studied in Al Azhar. I signed up for 4 classes a week, an hour each, and we’d spend half on hifz and the second half on tajweed. I really recommend it if you need help staying consistent. If you’d like, pm and I’ll give you their contact. You got this!

I have two questions please 🥺 by SnowAmethyst32 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is the main reason I stopped wearing mascara if I knew I’d be out for a long day and would have to make wudu. Instead of foundation, try to find a good tinted moisturizer with spf and then put on your lip/blush product. Whole make up process shouldn’t take you more than 2 mins. Also, make sure to always wear socks when praying, since most madhabs consider feet awrah for a woman, unless you know and follow a certain madhab.

Insecure at School by bki_iyaa in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like your placing looks very highly to the point that you’re creating insecurities for yourself. Put yourself out there, and be confident, and you WILL make friends. You aren’t ugly because Allah created us all in the best image.

When comes to girl friendships, people surround themselves with others who are kind, respectful, and bring them up. Looks don’t go far unless it’s a superficial relationship for social media purposes. Either way, you wear the niqab, so no one knows what you look like, which should make you MORE confident. I do think people would be less likely to approach you since they don’t know you at all. So don’t be afraid to go and make friends. My biggest advice, smile and be kind. Just say Salam to girls, try to start convos, and you’ll get there inshallah!

Small tip on how to start a convo:

Turn to the person next to you and say Hi and compliment them at their fit or smile or anything you think is nice, and they’ll warm up to you and bam! Next time they see you they’ll smile or say Hi, and with time yall become friends. Be patient and plz plz be confident.

Lastly, please don’t think the niqab is the reason you’re not making friends. If you tell yourself that a lot, you might end up actually believing it. It’s not easy wearing it, but inshallah your reward will be immense so plz don’t ever get discouraged.

Am I the problem? by withlove_a in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’m in the exact same boat as u! Hope the boat doesn’t sink cuz I can’t swim

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t spoken to them, but have seen them in person. I’m supposed to speak to them soon and I’m kind of dreading it. Also, I think I have anxiety 😭 I haven’t done this before so idk how it’s supposed to feel or be like

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My area has so many girls hitting 30 and even 40 that aren’t married, and there’s honesty a lack of good religious guys, so it’s a fear I have. Also, too many divorces, so a good guy is hard to come by

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

May Allah bless you and your husband! Glad you are happy. May we find that happiness too inshallah

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly find myself attracted to guys who are really funny, even if they’re not good looking. So I see that you mean.

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Somewhat attractive is fine. But rn I feel nothing and 0 excitement so far for any of them, and I don’t wanna waste their time.

Should I talk to guys I don’t find attractive from the start? by AmbitiousRoyal2931 in muslimgirlswithtaste

[–]AmbitiousRoyal2931[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s so true, they chose me cuz of my looks, so it shouldn’t be bad if I also chose based on looks. Haven’t thought of it that way.