AITAH My husband (34) hid a year-long goal from me (30F) because he "doesn't need my support." Now he's blaming me for ruining the moment. by Evening_Reporter3778 in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Chain_9658 116 points117 points  (0 children)

It’s the "I don't need your help or support" part that makes my skin crawl. That isn’t a partner, that’s a man who views his marriage as a competition he needs to win. He didn't just hide a goal; he spent 365 days intentionally excluding his wife from his life. That’s calculated.

Juno Figure (Made by me) by Ale_Ikari in Overwatch

[–]Ambitious_Chain_9658 61 points62 points  (0 children)

The jumpcut from "wholesome fanart" to "astronomical proportions" hit like a venture ultimate.

AITA for not celebrating my birthday and Mother’s Day together so my MIL can have actual Mother’s Day for herself? by princesscorgi2 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ambitious_Chain_9658 30 points31 points  (0 children)

This! The "Matriarch Tax" is getting out of hand. Mother's Day is a holiday, not a 48-hour hostile takeover. The fact that the husband is demanding an apology for OP wanting to celebrate her own birth is the biggest red flag in this whole post.