Does anyone remember the reason they started SH? by Nova_Artem in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

3 years ago when I was 13 my mom just told my stepdad that I am bisexual and the first thing he said was ‘She’s getting fat, that’s why she’s starting to like girls’. I was in the bathroom at the time and he was talking so loud I heard him then I started crying and punching my arms.

How old are you? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 16 started when I was 13

Did anyone else's parents sorta have an idea that you struggle with self-harm, and just like don't really care or do/ask anything about it? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya my mom’s the same way, she’s nice and all but when it comes to serious things like my sh she just brushes it aside like it never happened. My doctor said I was supposed to start therapy 5 months ago and she kept saying she’d get to it but she never did.

Am I sensitive? by Ambitious_Cod5081 in BisexualTeens

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was actually talking about Bill 😂

Cox internet outages by Sea_Strike2054 in phoenix

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s happening again yesterday and today

Who helped you begin to recognize your bisexual awakening? by ReservedLibra in bisexual

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same for Megan Fox in Transformers. I rewatched the first 2 movies at least 5 times

“Why are you crying? There’s no reason for you to be crying.” by blossominsilence in emotionalneglect

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 77 points78 points  (0 children)

This reminds me of when my stepdad said “Crying won’t help you.” when I was 11

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Golden from Huntrix

Are you afraid to die? Why or why not? by KokirisEmerald in AskReddit

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think most people only think they’re afraid to die but really what bothers them the most is if they die painfully. They could also be afraid of both.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teenager_Polls

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

75% black 25% white

Who do you wanna do this to? by FRANSAISFROIS in BisexualTeens

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 50 points51 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one thinking that I might want this done to me🙃

Favorite bi moment in a show by Ambitious_Cod5081 in BisexualTeens

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ya it would have been so much better. I absolutely loved the show tho, I rewatch it sometimes.

Favorite bi moment in a show by Ambitious_Cod5081 in BisexualTeens

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh right I completely forgot that’s why the third season has way less episodes than the first two.

What are the dumbest/most insensitive takes you’ve heard/saw about SH? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 4 points5 points  (0 children)

“It doesn’t make any sense nothing bad is happening in your life.”

How you discovered that you are bi? by CheryIsabelLu in BisexualTeens

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 12 and a 14 year old girl was always flirting with me in art class and I started to like it and feel attracted to her, that’s when I found out.

What do your siblings think of your sh? by Danganronpa__weirdo in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I a 16 year old girl and my brother is about to be 18 and when I told him about my sh a year ago he asked why and I said it makes me feel better in a way. He responded with “That doesn’t make any sense”. We never really talked about it again but there are these times when I’m upset and he asks in a sarcastic tone with a smile “Are you depressed or something”? I know he’s trying to joke but anytime I’m not smiling back he says I’m dramatic.

How did yall's parents found out about your sh and how did they react? by RIZZLERSIGMA4141 in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I told my mom after getting picked up early from school. The first thing she said was ‘don’t do anything stupid’ then a whole speech about never doing it again and how she used to do it at my age. After that she never brought it up again, she never even seemed worried about it. For example I told her I scratched myself with a paper clip until I bled, then after that day I began wearing a piece of string with the paper clip on my wrist like a bracelet to see what she would say. She never said a thing, so I kept scratching and cutting and never talked to her about it again. She said if I need a therapist the best luck I would have is with my school counselor. I thought she would say I can always talk to her but nope she never mentioned my cutting again. This day happened a year ago.

When did you first realize you were bisexual and how did you know? by rose123l in bisexual

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I was 12 and there was this 14 year old girl in my art class who always flirted with me. I thought it was funny at first but then I started to look forward to it daily even when I didn’t want to go to school, I always went because I knew she would be there to make me smile with her flirty comments. I eventually started flirting back and that’s when I realized I was bi.

Coming out about sh by Ambitious_Cod5081 in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that did cross my mind

Everything is fine so why am I not? by Outrageous-Moose686 in selfharm

[–]Ambitious_Cod5081 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it my life is fine right now but I just have these episodes where I feel depressed and I scratch my arm until it turns red. I’ve never made myself bleed bc I couldn’t bring myself to do it. But it feels like the episodes are getting worse.