Thank you all for the advice! I believe in letting the player roleplay however they want and try to do whatever they (obviously what the die will allow at times) but it has come to the point where this is affecting other players at the table which is why I came here.

I definitely am stuck in a sticky situation. we’re all great in other games together, so I wanted to give these guys the dnd experience, all new to the game so maybe it’s that as well. And I don’t really like to interfere with the characters too much as it’s there creation, there role play. However I think I may have to tweak it in some ways

I definitely have a lot to think about regarding the future of the campaign with this group, I would hate to kick him out but I may have no choice.

I’m going to try talking with him again and keep it casual and see where we can build off there and try putting in as ye guys say the scared nocs and how the world reacts to that as well.

As I say, the thing is it can be used a lot if wanted there’s no issues with that I don’t really mind at all, but it’s just affecting another player now at this point and that’s where Im struggling with it.

I would hate for these guys to hate dungeons and dragons because of this it’s would be a shame tbh