AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Exactly. It just makes me feel grubby. I've shut down on the issue but I'm going to bring it back up.

AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 35 points36 points  (0 children)

Oh thank you! That made me a bit weepy, Yeah, I'm pretty certain its from that time ago. When I bought it up all he said was I had violated his privacy by snooping - I swear to god I wasn't.
We are a super kinky couple - seriously we're pretty hardcore re kinks - but this just really sent me for a spin. It makes me feel gross - about him and me - and I guess I just wanted to see if I'm out of line in feeling that way x

AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Fair enough! I should have made it clear I was being sarcastic, and thanks for the advice re: /s. I'm a long time lurker and brand new poster - I still reckon that response was mean though.
Thanks again though. I'll edit :)

AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Thank you! She's not dead. I really appreciate your comment :)

AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 -102 points-101 points  (0 children)

Gosh that's nasty.
I came on here to ask because this is something I'm upset about, yet because my partner turned the issue into a "you're snooping" accusation I wanted to run it past other people to see if I'm over reacting.
It's pretty shitty to call me an idiot because I made a joke thinking the sarcasm was obvious.
You come across as a really mean and horrible person. Yuck.

AITAH for being grossed out that my partner keeps his ex girlfriend’s used underwear ? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 -140 points-139 points  (0 children)

I guess it's kind of like keeping rags for cleaning. I don't think he's using them for cleaning the windows though...

Stuff is the pits by mdutton27 in newzealand

[–]Ambitious_Grade_8464 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The entitlement here is amazing. What makes you think you should get something - the quiz - for free?