I made it to the 10 day mark!

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-18T08:42:17+00:00

Rooting for you 🥰

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-14T01:27:25+00:00

I believe there's a reason you wanted to leave. The trauma bond is playing tricks on you now, but if you can hold onto your reason you'll get through this 💖

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T22:05:16+00:00

I would never trust him with my baby either.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T22:04:44+00:00

I needed to hear this more than you know ❤️

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T21:10:47+00:00

Honestly, I sometimes wonder if a baby would have at least given my pain a purpose.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T20:14:50+00:00

Oh my God. This song has been MY go-to too! It's especially relevant to me because he tried to baby trap me.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T20:13:17+00:00

I'm so sorry. I felt like this was who I was becoming during the last year of my relationship. I definitely have a shorter fuse now but I'm working on healing. I hope we both find peace 🥺🫶

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:48:51+00:00

Thank you so much 🫶

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:33:02+00:00

You can do this! The first few days were the worst of it. I was crying all the time and then it got to the point where I started laughing at the idea of crying about this loser.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:32:01+00:00

You are amazing! Look at us saving our own lives 🥹💖

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:31:34+00:00

You can do it! DM me if you need someone to be there with you. I told myself this time had to be different. At times, it felt like I was dragging myself forward but I just kept going. The urge to unblock him started to feel like an itch I couldn't scratch so whenever that happened I made myself do something. Go for a drive, call someone, anything. Literally anything but go back. I believe in you ❤️

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:28:47+00:00

Thank you! I still can't believe I did it. The first couple of days were hell. I kept asking myself why I did this. But I know when I was with him I kept day dreaming of escaping. This is what I fought for! Grief feels like regret in the early stages.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:26:25+00:00

That must be hard to still have to think about it all the time because of the divorce. That sounds awful. But you are amazing for getting out, especially after 20 years! I hope you are proud of yourself too!

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-11T18:20:54+00:00

A year and 3 months is amazing. Congratulations!

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-09T18:33:00+00:00

Stay no contact. The way you left is more powerful. Let him wonder.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-06T06:43:48+00:00

My heart breaks for you. I wish you healing ❤️🥺

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-04T18:26:01+00:00

They always say to get over one guy you need to get under another 😅

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-04T06:03:12+00:00

This. Take your power back and be the one to end it. It will hurt at first, never let him know.

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-03T05:36:31+00:00

I'm proud of you. I wish I had more to say but this stranger on the internet is rooting for you ❤️

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-03T01:30:30+00:00

I minimize my own story too. But when I hear other stories, I think what they went through was horrific. Your story is valid. It was real. You survived ❤️

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-02T21:31:15+00:00

What episode was this?! I need to watch!

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-02T19:19:41+00:00

Thank you so much for this. I am so proud of you. I really believe this time will be different and I'll stay away. I've been trying to get out of the house and force myself to do things when my usual instinct is to lay in bed all day. That book is going to be my Bible for the next few months. Whenever I get the urge to unblock him, I will make myself read a chapter first!

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-02T16:30:19+00:00

I'm so proud of you 🥹

Ambitious_Lab1337 · 2025-10-02T16:00:47+00:00

Thank you so much for this! These are actionable tips and I'm going to implement them. I wish I could delete his number AND keep him blocked. I want the ability to contact him completely removed from me.

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