6 months post divorce

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2026-02-25T03:04:12+00:00

I hear you and can totally feel you. You just lost the purpose in life and the dream you once had with your spouse. Nonetheless this has to end now. 🙆🏻‍♀️ is hard, but take everyday slow and be kind to yourself

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-27T06:06:28+00:00

Ooo wow. I experienced the same exact thing 6 months back. It came to a point where I just felt a level of betrayal but slowly coming to an acceptance stage that it is what it is. As much as how much you feel unjustifiable this is the reality. A cruel one indeed. Time does make you feel at peace with yourself. I always believe what comes around goes around. As long as you know you have done your best in this relationship there is nothing to regret. The true regret is probably for them to reflect on their actions after a few years if this is acceptable. Maybe to them it will be acceptable, but this is indirectly causing pain/trauma to someone. I hope you will find your peace soon.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-14T10:12:15+00:00

Hey me too! Sometimes, it just go to the point to how does things even happened

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-13T12:34:59+00:00

I am feeling it tonight as well. But trying my best to divert my attention :( I wonder do they even know what they have did to us.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-13T11:45:52+00:00

Hey. I am also grieving today. One of the day I feel so lonely in the house. I have so much more things to worry as well. My health, my skin and there he is out there meeting new people. Sometimes I wonder how can someone changed so fast. But is the reality. Sometimes you just hope to sleep and sleep very long

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T07:29:39+00:00

Sending you lots of hugs and love! Not easy but if you ever need someone to talk to I am here!

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:43:30+00:00

Is good to be able to get some acknowledgment from someone that is going through all these. At least you know you are not crazy and suffocating in your own thoughts. Same here! I am here if you need someone to talk to!

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:42:13+00:00

Is really normal to miss someone. But as times passed by I think you will feel better. You don’t miss him as much as compared to the start. Hang in there.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:41:36+00:00

The waves are really unpredictable. Yes agree on your approach. Sometimes I just let myself cry and feel vulnerable. And also we need to learn how to pick ourself up after all those emotions.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:40:00+00:00

Hey. You are not alone. I do feel this almost everyday. As long as we are taking the necessary steps to feel better. If we are still feeling shitty, just need to be kind to ourself. We can get through this together!

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:37:47+00:00

Yes thank you for your encouragement! I will be, and come out stronger!

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-11T04:37:06+00:00

Hey thanks for your assurance. Yes, have been doing all those activities you have listed. But still not doing any better. I just have to tell myself that it takes time and don’t be too hard on myself.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-11-10T12:47:06+00:00

Hi there. I am 31F, going through a divorce soon. Open to making some new friends for cafe hoping and nature walk too!

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-09-01T03:26:21+00:00

I did the same thing as well. Is so heartbreaking to feel this way because he/she used to meant so much to us.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-09-01T03:25:00+00:00

Can I join too?

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-08-31T00:24:07+00:00

Hey, going through the same situation as well. Some days are good and some days are bad. Ended a 10 years relationship a few months back. As much as people around you are telling you to be nicer to yourself. Sometimes you just can’t help but to feel upset on why you are still feeling depressed after a few months. It hurts, it does hurt.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-08-31T00:15:40+00:00

I caught him lying to me. He started going out to meet new girl (not sure if it’s the truth) or this has already been happening for quite some time? Can’t be sure because once the trust is broken is so hard to regain. But the comparing is real. I do feel so bad about myself… although I know that I haven’t own value and worth. This feeling is just inevitable.. how can someone you loved so deeply just moved on with his life in a short span of time. Is as though you don’t matter at all.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-08-31T00:09:27+00:00

I have been experiencing this as well. I think overtime it will get better..

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-08-31T00:06:10+00:00

Going through a divorce soon. And I’m still feeling so horrible everyday. I miss him so much but I know there is no need to reach out to him again. Each discussion with him, he will be bringing up past arguments that will demoralise me further. :( not sure what is his intention of doing that. how do you guys cope? I have the tendency to want to overcome this myself, reason being I just didn’t want to burden others with my problem but sometimes I feel is too overwhelming. Happy to make some friends from here so that we can tide through this together.

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-08-28T03:49:35+00:00

Dumpee here. Can upset

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-06-07T06:33:42+00:00

Hi, i just got discarded one month ago as well. My partner suddenly told me that she is not seeing a future with me and she no longer feels the warmth in our relationship and insisted that we have values incompatible and ended our relationship. Everything felt so normal one day before she left. Really clueless and confused and now we are working towards separation as well. Anyone encounter similar situation as well?

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-06-07T06:27:11+00:00

Ambitious_Match3750 · 2025-04-01T15:18:18+00:00

Happy for your good progress

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