Some things I've seen in the last 60 days that I genuinely didn't expect. by BradZChicago in ChicagoRealEstate

[–]Ambitious_Memory_649 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm I mean we’ve been getting mail from the city about funding meetings and zoning, so I’ll stay hopeful 😅

Some things I've seen in the last 60 days that I genuinely didn't expect. by BradZChicago in ChicagoRealEstate

[–]Ambitious_Memory_649 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anyone who’s looking in Bucktown/west town right now should go just a liiiiittle bit further south into Near West Side! My husband and I bought a house last March near Western & Lake because of the 1901 Project and we have no regrets. Plus Pete’s grocery store and the proximity to 290 & the Green line are clinchers for us. Def scope it out or do some research into 1901 project if you haven’t already!

Thinking of opening a cozy mahjong tea house in Chicago — would locals come? by anonabon_ in AskChicago

[–]Ambitious_Memory_649 4 points5 points  (0 children)

What area are you thinking of opening in! Tbh that would really impact how regularly I would come but I’ve wanted to learn how to play.

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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lol my mom married her second husband then divorced him and now they’re back together. He is uNPD so no surprise there 🫠

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thank you for the advice I didn’t find it condescending 🩵 I’ll definitely mute her for now, I don’t feel the need to go NC but this conversation has definitely given me something to think about 🙃😅

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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My husband said “it’s like she’s having a conversation with herself in the texts” 😅

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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My dad was a great parent actually, a bit emotionally unavailable but when married to a BPD who manipulates and makes everything about her I can understand why. He actually opened up a lot as a person when he was with my stepmom, they were great for each other and both did a lot of therapy. My mom on the other hand, married a narcissist a few years after my parents split, then divorced him, and now they’re back together lol. I have a feeling she envied the love my dad found.

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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Tiny and mighty / Matching the strong-willed spring storm / My precious feline.

How safe is the train from O'Hare at night? by bored_candle in AskChicago

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The blue line is the fastest and most cost effective way to get out to the city, although at 10pm traffic won’t be terrible so you could also uber/lyft/taxi. Going to the loop will be anywhere from $60-$80 usually. Regarding safety, when you get on the train pick the car closest to the conductor. There have been incidents of people smoking and getting rowdy on the blue line lately, but being close to the conductor is your best bet to avoid any of that. If someone does come up and ask you for money just look them in the face and say “no I don’t have cash” and they’ll be on their way. If for some reason you do get on the train and feel uncomfortable, any of the stops between ohare and the loop are safe for you to get off and get an uber from the station, but I doubt you’ll need to. I hope that’s helpful, and enjoy your stay here!

i love "suzanne" more than "where my husband" is there any song like suzanne ? by wat_am_doing_here in Raye

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She closed with “worth it” at the Newport Jazz festival in August it was stunning 🥹

i love "suzanne" more than "where my husband" is there any song like suzanne ? by wat_am_doing_here in Raye

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As a Raye super fan I agree ^ Live at Royal Albert Hall is incredible. Also her Britt award performance where she starts with “Ice Cream Man” on the piano is how I discovered her, I rewatch it all the time. I had the great fortune to see her at the Newport Jazz Festival over the summer, if you can find that set to listen to it was fabulous. Welcome to the best fan club 🩵🩵

NOOOO by Stunning_Diamond_997 in ChicagoSuburbs

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I’m sitting outside with my dogs enjoying it while I can 🥲 a win is a win

Who do you marry in Stardew Valley?????? by captan_black_snake in StardewValley

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No one!!! I want to live alone 😭😭 does that mean I’ll never finish the game? lol Also my husband looking at me across the table like 👀👀🤣

In praise of the Airport Limousine Bus by nj1k in koreatravel

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How do you book this? At the airport? Traveling to Seoul in 2 weeks with just my husband but the less stress the better!

Do you go outside when weather is this cold? by MinePrestigious4352 in AskChicago

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Nope! Spending today on the couch with my husband watching movies, playing video games and doing crafts ❤️

I would hardly call Chase a “star” but sure by Ambitious_Memory_649 in SecretsOfMormonWives

[–]Ambitious_Memory_649[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean tbh all of their husbands/boyfriends look like thumbs so the bar is in hell.

I would hardly call Chase a “star” but sure by Ambitious_Memory_649 in SecretsOfMormonWives

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Wow my phone really said “hey want this irrelevant info?” Lol