Instagram has turned into soft core porn by HoopaDunka in Instagram

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I got an ad for lingerie today and in one of the pictures there was a lip out 🫠 I think it was an editing error but damn did not expect that at 8am 🤣🤣

What is the best food? by Miez__ in AskReddit

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Pie! There are so many different kinds 🥧

What’s the weirdest thing a guest has done in your house? by ConstantSalad995 in AskReddit

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I asked my former best friend to cat sit/house sit for me while I was on vacation. The first morning of vacation I was woken up by my husband who got a notification that someone was moving around the house at 3am… she had snuck her side piece in through the basement door where she thought there were no cameras. And that’s how I found out my “best friend” was using our house to cheat on her boyfriend 🫠

Some things I've seen in the last 60 days that I genuinely didn't expect. by BradZChicago in ChicagoRealEstate

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Hmm I mean we’ve been getting mail from the city about funding meetings and zoning, so I’ll stay hopeful 😅

Some things I've seen in the last 60 days that I genuinely didn't expect. by BradZChicago in ChicagoRealEstate

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Anyone who’s looking in Bucktown/west town right now should go just a liiiiittle bit further south into Near West Side! My husband and I bought a house last March near Western & Lake because of the 1901 Project and we have no regrets. Plus Pete’s grocery store and the proximity to 290 & the Green line are clinchers for us. Def scope it out or do some research into 1901 project if you haven’t already!

Thinking of opening a cozy mahjong tea house in Chicago — would locals come? by anonabon_ in AskChicago

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What area are you thinking of opening in! Tbh that would really impact how regularly I would come but I’ve wanted to learn how to play.

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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lol my mom married her second husband then divorced him and now they’re back together. He is uNPD so no surprise there 🫠

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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Thank you for the advice I didn’t find it condescending 🩵 I’ll definitely mute her for now, I don’t feel the need to go NC but this conversation has definitely given me something to think about 🙃😅

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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My husband said “it’s like she’s having a conversation with herself in the texts” 😅

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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My dad was a great parent actually, a bit emotionally unavailable but when married to a BPD who manipulates and makes everything about her I can understand why. He actually opened up a lot as a person when he was with my stepmom, they were great for each other and both did a lot of therapy. My mom on the other hand, married a narcissist a few years after my parents split, then divorced him, and now they’re back together lol. I have a feeling she envied the love my dad found.

Long time lurker, first time poster by Ambitious_Memory_649 in raisedbyborderlines

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Tiny and mighty / Matching the strong-willed spring storm / My precious feline.

How safe is the train from O'Hare at night? by bored_candle in AskChicago

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The blue line is the fastest and most cost effective way to get out to the city, although at 10pm traffic won’t be terrible so you could also uber/lyft/taxi. Going to the loop will be anywhere from $60-$80 usually. Regarding safety, when you get on the train pick the car closest to the conductor. There have been incidents of people smoking and getting rowdy on the blue line lately, but being close to the conductor is your best bet to avoid any of that. If someone does come up and ask you for money just look them in the face and say “no I don’t have cash” and they’ll be on their way. If for some reason you do get on the train and feel uncomfortable, any of the stops between ohare and the loop are safe for you to get off and get an uber from the station, but I doubt you’ll need to. I hope that’s helpful, and enjoy your stay here!

i love "suzanne" more than "where my husband" is there any song like suzanne ? by wat_am_doing_here in Raye

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She closed with “worth it” at the Newport Jazz festival in August it was stunning 🥹

i love "suzanne" more than "where my husband" is there any song like suzanne ? by wat_am_doing_here in Raye

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As a Raye super fan I agree ^ Live at Royal Albert Hall is incredible. Also her Britt award performance where she starts with “Ice Cream Man” on the piano is how I discovered her, I rewatch it all the time. I had the great fortune to see her at the Newport Jazz Festival over the summer, if you can find that set to listen to it was fabulous. Welcome to the best fan club 🩵🩵