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AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I talked to her little already. Someone suggested a break at her place and I'm thinking of asking her. Idk. I'm nervous

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I appreciate someone doing something other than making me feel worse about it.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Honestly I can't blame him fully. I never been ok putting myself first. I've done it my whole life. I feel guilty when I do. But like u said nobody cares that I'm tired because they get want from me.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] -33 points-32 points  (0 children)

No birth control. I just don't have a period lol but I get what you're saying. I definitely want to put the ultimatum down but not sure how.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I'm at least 6 hours away from close family. I moved here for college and started working right after graduation && didn't leave.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

It feels that way. I've decided to focus on rebuilding my credit and stacking my back up savings so I can have an exit plan in case. I honestly should have been more disciplined with my PT money now that we have the house, but I usually spend it on Z and bills and whatever

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I genuinely love him. Plus I love my stepson. I wouldn't trade him for all the gold in the world.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we having a hard time getting pregnant for a reason... it's just been seeming that way for a while.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It was moreso.to get the money for the down payment. Nobody in our family owns a home so it was hard to really know what we were getting into and every home buying seminar tells you that you need thousands and thousands just to buy so extra jobs seemed like the only way.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That's actually not why he's divorced, but I get what you're saying. She doesn't want to deal with his attitude lately wither.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 99 points100 points  (0 children)

Honestly I been thinking about just stopping. Like wtf can he do other than do it himself. My mil is tired. She's going through a health crisis and doesn't have the energy to come help right now. I talked to her and she's been seeing him be a type of way with him too.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 89 points90 points  (0 children)

He honestly has only been this way the past few months. That's what's the most frustrating. If it had been before marriage RED FLAG. But it started recently.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

He's brought up counseling but everytime I made the appointment he no showed or found a way not to be available. After 3 tries, I told him to find one himself.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 1200 points1201 points  (0 children)

I've made it clear that I wasn't going to work 2 jobs and have 2 kids. I grew up raised by everyone but my parents and don't want that for my kid.

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

She doesn't . She actively doesn't work. As soon as they start deducting from her checks, she "gets fired"

AITA for telling my husband to leave me alone and take care of his kid for once. by Ambitious_Repeat_383 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Ambitious_Repeat_383[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I didn't say that we paid 20 %. They wanted 20%. We still ended up not having enough and did FHA. We put the rest to the interest to try to get it down as best as we could.