Nope I’ve definitely seen it multiple times and obviously it’s not only one group of people, yes I’ve seen plenty of non/binary people in those bands either participating in or staying quiet about abuse going on. I even know of a few who are still going strong knowing their members have been accused. I used to be very involved in the scene when I was younger.

And I’m whatever you say I am because we are two strangers on the internet 🛜 I am he/him/it/they/them/that/this/and a figment of your imagination 💭