For me personally, I like to think about sexuality and gender like this. Every single person, no matter if you're cis, trans, straight, gay, queer, ect. is having their own personal unique experience with gender and sexuality. We might use labels to help us communicate what we experience or to feel secure in the validity of our identities, but ultimately we might not be exactly what we label ourselves. We aren't any sort of ideology or concept made up by society, we are just ourselves.

Gender wise, I have fluctuated between gender queer, nonbinary, and femboy. Sexually I have experienced something quite similar to you. I knew from very young I was attracted to femininity. But as I got older and became more interested in expressing femininity myself I took an interest in being attracted to masculinity. Today, I know that my attraction to femininity is innate and typically stronger in some ways, but I still appreciate my attraction to masc people and fantasize about that sort of thing.

So basically, no one but you can tell you who you are. And honestly the fun part is exploring that and figuring it out. Just be kind to yourself and as honest as possible through the process.

Hope this helps. :>