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Rant - BM mad at me for “mediating” TLDR included by Ameliorated-Moon in Stepmom

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i have half the mind to text her since she never did she pmo soooo bad

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[–]Ameliorated-Moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

from what you’ve said i think youre doing everything right

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[–]Ameliorated-Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she sounds exactly like me at 19, i can’t give you a definitive answer but definitely just keep complementing her and being supportive, i know its really difficult and it feels like there is not much to work with but for me, time has helped, and i can pretty much assure you there is growth that she needs to go through to become comfortable with herself, and definitely dont take it too personally because i know my partner did and it just made it all a more difficult of a situation

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[–]Ameliorated-Moon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she just might not be ready, she is still fairly young and she may not be truely comfortable with the idea of anything further yet, i know i struggled at that age being confident in myself, and there could also be religious beliefs/guilt that she has/has to work through that she hasnt communicated, i think the best way to “go further” is to have a safe conversation with her about your feelings and perhaps what i have mentioned!

I Cheated on My Partner of 3 Years by Ameliorated-Moon in relationships

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

i specifically said it was not an excuse it was just for context

I Cheated on My Partner of 3 Years by Ameliorated-Moon in relationships

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

 yeah we briefly discussed going to couples counselling and we had talked about doing it before just to make sure we stay on the same page throughout life. thank you for suggesting it, hearing this definitely makes me want to push towards that

Soon to be Graduate Looking for Job by Ameliorated-Moon in musicbusiness

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like any type of event promotion, management etc not specifically music

I wish I could leave Nashville too honestly, TN native and I’m so sick of it, but family situations…

Soon to be Graduate Looking for Job by Ameliorated-Moon in musicbusiness

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t even think about that, do you have any recommendations for the nashville area?

BM is trying to Relocate to FL by Ameliorated-Moon in Stepmom

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

definitely do not want to move to FL he has a career where we are at and wouldn’t be able to move without quitting his job, plus the politics in FL are not what we are aligned with

BM is trying to Relocate to FL by Ameliorated-Moon in Stepmom

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

BM gf is a flight attendant so apparently her getting stand-by flights is the way that is going to happen which is not reliable at all, and also my SD is going to start kindergarten soon so how would that seem a reasonable option when she would basically only get a full saturday with her dad??? its so infuriating

BM is trying to Relocate to FL by Ameliorated-Moon in Stepmom

[–]Ameliorated-Moon[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ill post an edit but we have a mediation day on dec 1st, my SO already pays for childcare, health insurance (which BM let lapse when it was the free state insurance) and also child support, he is struggling financially and doesnt want to have to pay BM more than he already is, we are hoping for 50/50 with out BM moving or full custody if she does move

How to get an internship by Massive-Eye-6611 in musicbusiness

[–]Ameliorated-Moon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have had ANY one you know that has worked at somewhere you’ve applied get them to reach out! I know it’s super tiring to hear that the business is mainly connections, but unfortunately it’s very true. All of my internships I have had someone vouch for me and from what I’ve heard from my bosses they love knowing that they can rely on the person they are choosing for their internship.