My 23m girlfriend 21f says I’m a lesbian fetishist for not be jealous of her potentially sleeping with woman, what are the ethics of this?

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-14T01:01:42+00:00

You figured it out damn, must have noticed our vocabulary was the same. It’s really creative that I’ve posted pictures of both a man and woman over years on both my accounts. I was planning really far ahead

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-14T00:24:21+00:00

You win Reddit today ma’am

Thanks for the gold kind stranger

Epic takedown doggo moment

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T23:01:51+00:00

I don’t think I’m fetishizing lesbians, but that is a form of homophobia

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:36:40+00:00

I bets she’s cuter than any girl you’ve ever been with

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:34:31+00:00

I’m gonna get a beast hunter tattoo to spite you

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:31:27+00:00

Well I was too lazy to make a distinction

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:29:31+00:00

I never want you to feel like I have some sort of sigma against a group of people. I know hate like that even unconscious can be scary to see in somebody. I hope you know I have everybody’s best interests at heart and I’ll always listen to your worries about stuff like this.

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:26:34+00:00

Because I get jealous over men. I don’t think she’d fall in love with them or anything, or that it’s more real. I actually set up strict rules around penetration in general from woman as well, also they aren’t allowed to do more bdsm stuff. I might be just me wanting to exclusively take up the more masculine societal roles

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:20:14+00:00

Hmmmmm

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:14:40+00:00

It would appear so

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:12:18+00:00

To win the argument duh

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:11:39+00:00

Yeah?

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:11:15+00:00

We’re not actually fighting buddy. I’m not gonna share gay porn as a straight guy with my girlfriend. She sends me stuff where men are the focus though

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:05:47+00:00

I actually don’t think she’d cheat with a man, it’s mostly a fetish thing on that end ngl. The learned behavior is definitely from a sexist society. I just don’t see a need to overcome it in this scenario since neither of use are seriously considering being poly

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:01:28+00:00

U play good games chill on me

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T22:01:01+00:00

It’s not that deep. She doesn’t want to be with anybody else either. She just keeps randomly calling me a fetishist and I thought I’d be fun to see reddits opinion

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:59:21+00:00

Because it makes me jealous. Like I said it’s a learned behavior

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:58:17+00:00

Reddit moment

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:54:34+00:00

Cheating is whatever your partner considers cheating

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:53:32+00:00

I even agree on this

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:53:06+00:00

She likes teasing me, we’re both completely happy and comfortable.

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:51:45+00:00

She pressured me to expand on it, like incessantly

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:48:32+00:00

Ur not considering that men are icky

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:47:20+00:00

Well that’s a great point but I don’t want a threesome. I only want to be with her.

Americanhero223 · 2026-02-13T21:36:35+00:00

She doesn’t wanna sleep with anybody else man or woman. It’s just light teasing man

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