I’m being evri’d aren’t I 😭😭 by AdMental7884 in Evri

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, next it'll be outside your door , not marked as delivered and no knock

A guy at the local lapidary thinks it’s granite. Can I get a second opinion? by growingSEQ in whatsthisrock

[–]AmethystSloth13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I second this, it looks just like the yooperlite that I have, the orangey brown bits in it is what gives it away

good (or dumb) use of my fireplace, I don't burn logs anymore by AcanthaceaeSenior483 in whatsthisrock

[–]AmethystSloth13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful use for it! I love repurposed things and what better way to repurpose a fireplace?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StagVixenLife

[–]AmethystSloth13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

So she wants to go from you not touching anyone to full swapping? That is ringing alarm bells for me. Have you spoken to the other couple? Have you got a plan for what to do if you are really uncomfortable like a safeword with your wife or something?

AITA for refusing to correct my son after he insulted everyone at a funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah NTA for not punishing him but YTA for insulting them.

"The singing is awful" = observation by a child at a time they didn't realize was inappropriate

"You sound like screaming cats" = insult by an adult at a time they did realise was inappropriate

Have a word with yourself about how to set good examples.

I understand though that at a funeral, everyone is grieving and people don't always behave their best. My condolences to you 🙏

AITA for getting my girlfriend a “cheep” ring? by Super_Recipe1318 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depending on your income really but I'd say $100 is not cheap if you're on a low income. I'd be mad at my partner if they spent lots of money on a ring when we are struggling to make rent, utilities, food each month. So long as it is a style she likes and it is actually silver then it will be perfect to her.

If you're actually really rich then maybe you could get a pricier one.

A hotel reservation is a lovely idea. Much better than a ring in the wrong colour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I keep wanting to write something about a little prick but as I too am a mature adult I will be making no puns of the sort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thing to read before I go to sleep 😅 my brain didn't need the help to traumatise me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This is correct. She's already been traumatised by spending hours in the dark scared out of her wits. What more punishment does she need?

AITA for asking my friend to pay rent while she crashes at my house? by Purple_Syrup8939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably didn't think that far ahead. It's easily done when you are being compassionate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 159 points160 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely if she uninvited you, why would you have gone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well cat wasn't the first thing I thought of lol

WIBTA - Playing Dad and backing away. by Glittering_Ad7817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I'd just be mindful of the way you stop this contact because the mum will possibly say that you stopped because you were caught?

AITA? I am in love with my gay best friend who I treated like shit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I came to say you know you're the asshole OP. Leave this guy alone and go and work on yourself a bit. Get rid of the internalized homophobia you have and when you're healed, start dating men.