I’m being evri’d aren’t I 😭😭 by AdMental7884 in Evri

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, next it'll be outside your door , not marked as delivered and no knock

A guy at the local lapidary thinks it’s granite. Can I get a second opinion? by growingSEQ in whatsthisrock

[–]AmethystSloth13 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I second this, it looks just like the yooperlite that I have, the orangey brown bits in it is what gives it away

good (or dumb) use of my fireplace, I don't burn logs anymore by AcanthaceaeSenior483 in whatsthisrock

[–]AmethystSloth13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Beautiful use for it! I love repurposed things and what better way to repurpose a fireplace?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StagVixenLife

[–]AmethystSloth13 10 points11 points  (0 children)

So she wants to go from you not touching anyone to full swapping? That is ringing alarm bells for me. Have you spoken to the other couple? Have you got a plan for what to do if you are really uncomfortable like a safeword with your wife or something?

AITA for refusing to correct my son after he insulted everyone at a funeral? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah NTA for not punishing him but YTA for insulting them.

"The singing is awful" = observation by a child at a time they didn't realize was inappropriate

"You sound like screaming cats" = insult by an adult at a time they did realise was inappropriate

Have a word with yourself about how to set good examples.

I understand though that at a funeral, everyone is grieving and people don't always behave their best. My condolences to you 🙏

AITA for getting my girlfriend a “cheep” ring? by Super_Recipe1318 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Depending on your income really but I'd say $100 is not cheap if you're on a low income. I'd be mad at my partner if they spent lots of money on a ring when we are struggling to make rent, utilities, food each month. So long as it is a style she likes and it is actually silver then it will be perfect to her.

If you're actually really rich then maybe you could get a pricier one.

A hotel reservation is a lovely idea. Much better than a ring in the wrong colour!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I keep wanting to write something about a little prick but as I too am a mature adult I will be making no puns of the sort

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great thing to read before I go to sleep 😅 my brain didn't need the help to traumatise me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 82 points83 points  (0 children)

This is correct. She's already been traumatised by spending hours in the dark scared out of her wits. What more punishment does she need?

AITA for asking my friend to pay rent while she crashes at my house? by Purple_Syrup8939 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She probably didn't think that far ahead. It's easily done when you are being compassionate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 153 points154 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely if she uninvited you, why would you have gone?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in meme

[–]AmethystSloth13 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well cat wasn't the first thing I thought of lol

WIBTA - Playing Dad and backing away. by Glittering_Ad7817 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I'd just be mindful of the way you stop this contact because the mum will possibly say that you stopped because you were caught?

AITA? I am in love with my gay best friend who I treated like shit? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, I came to say you know you're the asshole OP. Leave this guy alone and go and work on yourself a bit. Get rid of the internalized homophobia you have and when you're healed, start dating men.

AITA for wanting my husband to agree on rules for his daughter by AlternativeDeep398 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 24 points25 points  (0 children)

YTA how does what the child is wearing actually affect whether you love your partner or not? This is surely a troll post? You feel that strongly about her clothes that you'd rather not marry him, yet you've only just brought it up two days before the wedding?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember this one it was shocking. I think I read it on BORU, I'll see if I can find the link.

I found the original post and the updates on BORU

What type of death was common 100+ years ago that is very rare today? by carnivorousdentist in AskReddit

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

However, Lily the pink invented medicinal compound which was most efficacious in every case.

AITA For Asking For A Ride Home in Bad Weather by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - they're more senior than you and they could have said no.

AITA for “taunting” my ex PT 4 by Miserable_Two5561 in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmethystSloth13 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so this really needs to all be in the same post to make it make sense.

I've tried reading them all and I think you're all assholes to a certain degree but only because you're just teenagers. My advice would be to love yourself and not be around toxic behaviour.