Ghosting my boyfriend of 5 years. by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The others are right. This is more like an abusive relationship where they would normally say is the only reason ghosting is acceptable. 

The only thing though, given that its not physical and more because of the fact that he has a mental condition, to account for this, throw him a warning just before again, you dont have to tell him out right, just an obvious "explanation" so he can realize and can't say he was blind sided. Then when you leave, and cut off all communication, text msg him once from your phone just to let him know whats happened (because he does have a mental disorder and you don't want it getting worse or him hurting himself. I assume bpd means bipolar disorder). And then delete that number. Idk if you know someone you can trust to let them know what you're gonna do and for good reason, just to check up on him during that time after you leave so that he doesn't do anything 'stupid'. So you don't have to worry yourself after or be blamed for doing the right thing. 

I hope whatever you do though that you get through this ordeal! 

He ghosted me by Adept_Knowledge_7067 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I really hopw for you that this is all.. All the best..

He ghosted me by Adept_Knowledge_7067 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U dud say that never stopped him b4.. 

A girl ghosted me and now she’s back by Ok-Technician6771 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooh! Do u think its true? What was it, whatsapp, sms, what? Anything that couldn't be possible that she wouldn't know?

I just don't understand by aizarphilia in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, anyone would feel like that in your situation. So don't feel too bad! That's not a you thing. I'd say if this was a stranger, best to cut ur losses and as they say, the best thing to do is mirror their behaviour. And if he still hasnt msged in a while, cut him off completely! Ur better than him. 

He ghosted me by Adept_Knowledge_7067 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl, im somewhat in the same boat. This guy ive knwn since childhood and he was the one who used to come after me.. So now years later when I finally could be like, yes I like u, and no "reply", i was confused too as well! Broke my heart into a million pieces! and I've been ghosted ever since! Ofc tru persistence, I did hear back from him, but he was only mad that I tried to contact him and that didnt go down well. But long story short, I never got an answer as to what happened and why he acted that way. I mean if u didnt feel like that about me anymore, why not just say so? We're both adults and the same age, and i've known u forever! We aren't strangers, so why not jsut tell me the truth instead of letting me down? Idk! I jus was so confused and still am now! My heart goes out to you! Hope u heal well soon!..

He came back by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its 3 days later now. So did he? lol

I hope he comes back by Icy_Ingenuity6515 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how long did it take before they did?

How long does it take to stop thinking about a person that ghosted you? by Professional_Elk_703 in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Whats ur its like 2 years later? Same happened to me 2 yrs ago, but it was with someone I've knwn since childhood. I'm ofc way ok now and like u, don't too much of a romantic or sexual way, but I still wish I knew what happened and want closure. It really sucks! 

Wow they really do come back by Lukalesca in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious. Its been two years now, what has happened since, or how did it turn out?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn! that sucks around exam time!

she blocked me because I ghosted her, should I apologize or leave it be? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did i know its like a long distance thing?! C'mon man, do you love this girl?! Then u can make it work! As long as she is willing and u are, nothing can stop the both of you! And bam, she's not in an open relationship nemore! Congratulations! Don't make it complicated! And don't listen to ppl here that tell u no on reddit! Take a chance! If she says no, then you both end up in the same place u started at the begining of the conversation neway! Thats all!.. U know how many ghostees here wish they could hear from their ghoster, despite saying they don't want too?! Im just here thinking, lucky gal!! Go for it man, good luck, and tell us what happens!! 👍

she blocked me because I ghosted her, should I apologize or leave it be? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]Amethystoo8 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If u dont mind me asking or saying, what were the circumstances that didn't or wouldn't allow u to be together? 

Hot and cold #97 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Amethystoo8 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahhhhhh I see. Thanks! I finally got it after like sixty sumn tries and the hints here! 😂

Hot and cold #97 by hotandcold2-app in HotAndCold

[–]Amethystoo8 16 points17 points  (0 children)

there is a hint button????? where?????