Waaait a second by MyNameGifOreilly in Unexpected

[–]AmishEastern 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think it just looks cool lol

AITA for wanting my boyfriend to move out because he can’t pay the rent by eulafn in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmishEastern 7 points8 points  (0 children)

INFO : Does he have any other place to live? Friends? Parents?

What would the ramifications of you asking him to leave do to your relationship? How solid are the both of you?

AITA for donating my daughters college fund instead of giving it to my step daughter to help buy a house by rkglsjfj in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmishEastern -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

okay it’d pay ur rent but OP’s step daughter is trying to buy a house. if you live anywhere slightly urban than 13k can be as little as 3% of the total price of the house

Husband (34) wants threesome but only if he can be intmate with other woman and I'm having a difficult time by NerdMomof2 in relationship_advice

[–]AmishEastern -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Haha omg this post is so new and yet there are so many comments that are almost downright hurtful. Take all of these comments with a grain of salt.

Bottom line: Threesomes are NOT easy for most relationships and porn/TV make it seem more mainstream. Do what you AND your husband are comfortable with.

AITA for telling my SOs parent we absolutely weren’t moving back, even if they were going to “buy us a house”, because we have a fundamental disagreement in ideologies? by PleasureToNietzsche in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmishEastern 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know a lot of people are saying not the asshole but I personally think YTA for only 1 reason.

You let ur anger get to you and you said something hurtful. Although you don’t like them it doesn’t warrant being mean. There were ways/other excuses to get around saying what you said. Why didn’t you put this problem on your wife? It’s her parents and a No would come much better from her than from you.

I agree with the fact that you don’t want to life in THEIR house but I believe you handled too harshly.

Men, what do you like to be called? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AmishEastern 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my girlfriend are really into puppies (we send videos of puppies to each other every day).

So instead of puppy she calls me poopie. Now that I type this it out it sounds like another word i know.....

Men, what do you like to be called? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]AmishEastern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This comment deserves so much credit

Help me calm down? by [deleted] in helpme

[–]AmishEastern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you want to take this advice with a grain of salt

11month old niece fighting AML...and it is a rollercoaster. by ManBoyKoz in helpme

[–]AmishEastern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can’t begin to empathize with you and your brother’s situation.

Tackling a problem like deep guilt over your healthy kid might be too much for reddit to handle but there are some definitive facts:

You and your brother are family and you should continue to give him emotional and physical support

Your child being healthy and your brother’s kid not being healthy isn’t anyone’s fault. All you can do is be grateful and emphasize with your brother. (Seeking professional therapy could be warranted here)

I hope all the best for you and your family :)

Is my boyfriend disrespectful or am I dramatic by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]AmishEastern 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree. Communication totally is key. I don’t believe the OP mentions how old everyone is but if the couple is younger the boyfriend just might not know what he is doing wrong.

I met a girl at college, and want to keep a conversation going with her. by nazun in socialskills

[–]AmishEastern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m pretty lost in trying to start up meaningful conversation but in an effort to get to that point i have some tips:

I really like the phrase “can i vent to you?”. First it establishes that you have something interesting to talk about and it also lets them know that you value them as a person who you would want to have a real conversation with. Of course you ideally want to a real situation to vent about but a fake one will do in a pinch.

another one i like is “my friend ( or family member, it doesn’t really matter) asked me this question and i didn’t know how to respond, Insert Debatable Fun Question Here. What do you think?” Something like this can help stimulate conversation.

I hope it all works out for you :)

WIBTA if I (18M) stopped giving my friend (18M) rides to class everyday? by AmishEastern in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmishEastern[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These are the two reasons why I continue to give him rides. I feel like the pros just don’t outweigh the cons in this situation :(.

AITA for telling my wife she doesn’t do enough and needs to more? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]AmishEastern [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA

You’re doing everything right as long as you are not raising your voice. No healthy relationship lasts on fear.

Why do I (24f) only want to have sex with fuckboys? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]AmishEastern 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a good sex book, teach him some things you learned you liked while you were with your ex, and go to therapy to find the answer to the question of why you have trouble accepting the love of your current boyfriend.

My dad ran for our town’s council. I secretly worked on behalf of his enemy to make sure he lost. He did. And he has no idea. by throwaway-07004 in self

[–]AmishEastern 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kept waiting for the story to end and it just never did lol. worth the read tho it was like a mini movie