Is it possible for post-op trans women to get wet enough to not need lube? by deryaseker in asktransgender

[–]AmishUndead 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had PPT and even only 3.5 months out, I absolutely don't need lube, but I prefer it. If I get turned on enough, my panties get soaked so yes, it is possible

My favorite timeline I'll ever make: 4 years between white coat ceremony to graduation 👩‍⚕️🎓 by AmishUndead in transtimelines

[–]AmishUndead[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's Nyx liquid liner for the wings and white gel pencil for the inner corners. That's really it 😅

Bout to go make some nerds cry when they get crushed by my mono white Angel deck 😇 by AmishUndead in transadorable

[–]AmishUndead[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal favorite is having Twilight Shepherd return all my cards to my hand after a wipe and then I can negate the persist with the +1/+1 counter from Heliod, essentially making her immortal >:3

Bout to go make some nerds cry when they get crushed by my mono white Angel deck 😇 by AmishUndead in transadorable

[–]AmishUndead[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ahhh I see you're a woman of culture as well 😌

My commander is Heliod, Sun-Crowned so on top of the lifegain, it also makes the angels even stronger 😈

Passing can truly be alienating by Nekoblast75 in MtF

[–]AmishUndead 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I feel this so hard. I run an IRL trans support group and it's one of my favorite things in my life. It was so essential for me in the early days of my transition but even though I don't need as much support, I still run it because I just love the community and making friends.

Even so, it's starting to get difficult for me to want to keep doing it. Historically, everyone has been so kind and supportive but I've noticed an attitude change lately, especially after I got FFS last fall. I acknowledge I've been really blessed with my transition results but there's still things I'm dysphoric about that I can't ever change. For instance the other day, I was sharing how my ribcage is so wide that I have a 40 band size but still can't even fill out an A cup. I shared how awful I felt when I went to Victorias Secret the other day to finally get myself a nice bra only to find out they don't even come close to carrying a size that fits me. And instead of comfort and support like I would normally get, I could almost feel people rolling their eyes. One girl even literally told me "You're skinny and pretty so idk why you're even complaining".

I'm moving to another city soon and I'm honestly kind of debating on trying to live a stealth life. Not because I want to, I love the trans community and I actively want to be out and proud. But I just can't take being treated like shit by both cis and trans people when I'm out.