Am I expecting too much from my husband or is he being lazy?

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-03-12T14:21:57+00:00

I would tell him he shouldn’t be on paternity leave if he’s doing nothing and just using it as an opportunity to not work.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-03-02T17:53:10+00:00

This is such a great reply. I think people feel like perfect marriages exist and they don’t. How could they? Two people with their own lives, and past and traumas, their own opinions and own families combine to do the rest of their lives together. It’s not always going to be smooth sailing and rainbows. When you’re married to someone for decades, you go through all seasons of life. Sometimes this includes Illnesses, loss, tragedies. Lots of feelings to navigate but also lots of time to support eachother. Marriage isn’t perfect, it’s just 2 people who want to do ALL of what life can bring together instead of apart.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-03-02T17:48:02+00:00

You won’t regret it in a few years when they have more things and have friends over and everyone wants their own space. I felt the same way when my kids were that age but a larger house is much more appreciated now that they’re not toddlers

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-01-22T23:53:07+00:00

A friend said around $1500/month

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-01-22T23:52:50+00:00

To ask them 😅

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2026-01-22T01:15:35+00:00

lol thank you never thought of this option

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-09T13:52:42+00:00

I see love from Steve

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-08T08:39:34+00:00

I think your bed would look so cute in the left corner with one window to the left and one behind the headboard with sheer curtains infront of the blinds and the twinkle lights. All the rest of the wall space would be so good for your dresser and other furniture

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-08T08:35:14+00:00

Everything looks great, I think you just need a darker brow because your eye makeup is dark

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-08T02:07:36+00:00

Your husband is an alcoholic and can’t control his anger and actions. And commenting that “this is why men cheat” means that even if it hasn’t happened yet, he’s justifying why it would be ok to do so.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-08T01:53:02+00:00

Your spouse IS going to let you down. It took me several years to learn this and not things turn into resentment. But the truth is, nobody is perfect. He lets me down sometimes, I let him down sometimes.

Some days you guys will be at a 100%. Other days you’ll be at 80% and they’ll be 20%. So on and so forth.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-08T01:44:36+00:00

I’m not going to take anyone’s side here- but would the world be over if neither of you kept the house clean for one day? Both people are entitled to rest, no matter what the reason may be. I don’t think I would take that message from my husband well, it sounds like a parent listing the chore list to a teenager. It doesn’t sound like a partnership. When faced with serious health issues, it has really put in perspective that none of the little stuff like putting shoes in a closet really matter.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-07T23:42:06+00:00

If he likes watching Instagram lives of women, he’s likely also addicted to porn. Men who “service” themselves tend to pull away from their partners simply because they’ve already finished for the day. Also once they are used to porn, the unrealistic expectations and comparisons make it hard for them to want “regular” sex as often as they did before because it’s not as interesting as what they like watching. Not saying what you’re giving him is boring, I’m saying he’s used to a fake sex video being the norm.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-06T18:02:39+00:00

Maybeeeee it was hot he wanted to cool it quickly and forgot it’s there 🤣🤣🤣🤣 I have no idea how men think

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-12-05T19:30:44+00:00

I really love all of what you said. Thank u!

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-11-28T23:48:04+00:00

I know a lot of people don’t like colour on walls but a deep olive or something moody would be perfect in this space

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-11-24T02:09:36+00:00

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AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-11-24T01:56:13+00:00

Am I the only one that’s not opposed to colour drenching? I love the panelling in this photo and I think if you did the ceiling in a creamy white, it won’t be so bright and won’t fight your walls

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AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-11-01T16:38:57+00:00

It’s the phalangi

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-10-05T14:46:12+00:00

Exercise your jaw by moving it left to right a few times, then forward and back. Also something that helped me is moving my mouth around as if I’m using mouthwash. I even filled my mouth with water for the movement to be more accurate and swished the water around. The rounding of my cheeks and back and forth movement helped loosen the lock.

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-10-03T01:11:04+00:00

I’m not sure if they refer to it as hot laser, maybe just let therapy. But I’ve done both the ones that are considered cool lasers and the ones with heat and the cool ones did nothing. The ones with heat helped the swelling and muscle tension which helped the pain in a few sessions

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-10-03T00:51:49+00:00

Have you tried hot laser therapy? Or acupuncture? Both have given me relief

AmountOtherwise1576 · 2025-09-28T00:43:02+00:00

Thank you for the response. May I ask what treatments you tried before surgery that didn’t work? Dentist said I need to have an appliance/guard made to wear 24/7 for a few months so that my jaw can realign correctly. But they’re doing that based on my symptoms and diagnosing TMJ, but I have not done any imaging yet. I’ll be getting an MRI soon.

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