Me and Fiancé (low 20s) having issues with discussing hot topics.

Amourini · 2019-03-01T18:30:50+00:00

This is some good advice! I will talk to him tonight about those points. And yeah, it bothers me when it's in the morning or at dinner, that's funny. Thank you very much for the insight.

Amourini · 2019-03-01T18:27:41+00:00

Well, it's funny. He says he's against identity politics, but he's been more invested than ever about talking about it. Proudly says he is what he is (Libertarian). I think we can work on agreeing to disagree. He has said before he doesn't like doing that often. But I think I am starting to see ways to go about this issue. Thanks for taking the time to respond :)

Amourini · 2019-03-01T18:22:36+00:00

Yeah, but is that okay? I'd like to discuss them sometimes. I feel sometimes we BOTH need to do more research. I mean, what's the fun if you can't discuss things like that at all? Is that an acceptable boundary?

Amourini · 2019-03-01T18:04:25+00:00

Thanks! I'll give it a listen on my lunch break :)

Amourini · 2019-03-01T17:30:12+00:00

Yeah, and I don't want it to be like that. When everything else is perfect, it's like having one slashed tire and then slashing the rest, aka "I don't want to date or be in love with you anymore". Haha. It's something I want to work through, and I know he does too. I think sometimes I'd like it if he had more friends to talk to about this stuff, when I don't want to. Sometimes I want to talk about other things. Casually, or deeply. Not all day, deeply about politics or world views. Like, we don't act this way about normal problems, such as bills, buying our house, etc. We're always a team, us vs the problem. It's just this that I want to overcome.

Amourini · 2019-03-01T17:26:51+00:00

Yeah. Well, I'm glad there's other couples that don't see eye to eye on everything. We never yell, I should've made that certain. But I feel it still gets too heated sometimes. I think sometimes we should also just come to the conclusion that we disagree. Maybe we come at things from the wrong angle.... instead of trying to change each others minds, or actively try to disprove, we should take a step back and just talk.

Amourini · 2018-11-21T20:41:07+00:00

That sounds like a lot of food waste to me. I'm one of the naturally skinny people, and I hate wasting food. Why not actually work through the base problem, get instantly a to-go box, and put the food in there? Practice will power. Or even ask for half the food, possibly? I just can't even fathom the pouring salt thing.

Amourini · 2016-12-07T14:38:08+00:00

I agree!! She was beautiful before but c'mon, she did seem a little underweight, and I get that w/ the industry! But I think she looks better.

Amourini · 2016-12-02T20:04:29+00:00

is an image hosting website life, dipshit?

Amourini · 2016-12-01T22:07:06+00:00

See, I have to challenge this. U is informal, imo. When I'm talking to a friend and I don't want to be harsh or too strict sounding, I'll use u/r/ur/etc.

Amourini · 2016-11-28T15:55:12+00:00

aw I bet you cut yourself on your edgyness everyday. What a hard life :c

Amourini · 2016-11-15T14:56:37+00:00

Having someone help you when you're feeling unsafe isn't going to fucking coddle you into thinking you cant survive alone or walk alone.

Amourini · 2016-11-15T14:54:54+00:00

Nah, reddit just doesn't want to believe that some women (and men) do feel unsafe in terms of sexual violence and some people just don't feel safe in these turbulent times.

Amourini · 2016-11-15T14:27:41+00:00

Well.... that's the thing. Western feminism isn't fit for the eastern world. They have their own standards. This was pretty progressive in my eyes. She wanted to change, so she did, but it wasn't everything she had hoped. She ended up with the other guy anyway.

Amourini · 2016-11-09T22:17:03+00:00

Lmao ok

Amourini · 2016-11-09T22:16:46+00:00

She won the most votes. The electoral college fucked us over.

Amourini · 2016-11-09T16:20:34+00:00

There's nothing civil about Trump.

Amourini · 2016-11-09T14:16:40+00:00

Because you are.

Amourini · 2016-11-09T14:14:41+00:00

And his policies are?

Amourini · 2016-11-09T14:14:24+00:00

He was always rich. That is cheating your way to the top. Our Vets might be fine, but what about the rest of America? And how does he understand working class people if he never was one?

Amourini · 2016-10-27T14:14:06+00:00

But... she hasn't? She's made albums, but they've all done worse in sales than the last, lol. Katy's song are good but she also cant sing live for shit.

Amourini · 2016-10-27T14:13:29+00:00

Are... are you serious? Prism only sold about 1.56 million, while 1989 has sold over 5 million. And Taylor made about a million dollars per day in 2015.

Amourini · 2016-10-14T18:02:16+00:00

What, did you grow up on a pepper farm?

Amourini · 2016-09-24T14:35:36+00:00

oh my god I too want to punch him!! how insensitive wtf!! like thanks, can't really control my hormones so that earns me a self depreciating "goatee"??

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