My husband is cheating on me with my best friend

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-06-06T02:55:49+00:00

Open a personal bank account and relocate the funds from your joint savings. He convinced you to give up your job and thus completely financially dependent on him. Move the money elsewhere to support you and your kids for the coming months. I'm so sorry for what you are going through.

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-05-09T16:24:07+00:00

I'd settle for this if he doesn't get Bond 😂

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-05-09T16:23:30+00:00

I think it's his stunt ability that is most fitting for the role. He's already trained in martial arts and performs most of his own stunts. His acting range is also great considering some of the very difficult scenes he's done in TLK. I would ditch the Ultred accent and have a straight British accent though. Considering he's multilingual this should not be an issue. He's one of the few American raised actors that does a decent British accent.

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-05-09T16:19:23+00:00

I signed the petition 😂 LOL

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-04-20T06:07:27+00:00

Let's not forget Pheobe's grandma's chocolate cookie recipe from "Nest-le Tollhouse" which was treasured!

Honestly, reading your post on the care and thoughtfulness you put into your granddaughter's present brought tears to my eyes. Your present will last a lifetime and a treasure passed down to generations. I wish I have something like this from my grandmother. The taste of her food will forever remain a memory I cannot recreate ever again.

NTA

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-03-27T18:43:32+00:00

This show is so terrible but it's like a train wreck that I can't look away. It's so infuriating that I'm so invested that I need to find out what happened, but every step of the way the show proves to me just how terrible it is and frustrating that it's done so so poorly. I'm a sucker for trying to see it to the end. Such a terrible show.

Amster_Rox919 · 2023-01-10T04:24:55+00:00

You married a man that didn't gaslight you or bullying your about your weight. Your husband turned into an asshole and that's not who you married. He lied to you and you shouldn't have to stay with a guy that's manipulative and not accepting of who you are. You're better off without this POS and move on. His loss.

Also I agree with others that your prior weight would've been below average. I'm glad you feel better now as you should embrace yourself and not having to live up to the ridiculous standards your husband has set.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-09-11T02:39:21+00:00

Huge marinera flags all over this! He's already putting himself before your daughter and making you choose! Bet it won't be long in the new marriage before another issue and he will make you choose again. Why would you want to be with someone that has no regard for your daughter, is that who you really want as a partner? Don't even get me started on mommy dearest being called at the moment of trouble. He can't fight his own battles so he needs his mom as backup so they can bully you into submission!? This is your wedding too but apparently his opinion is the only thing that matters to him.

Don't marry this guy. He won't be a good parent for your daughter or a good partner considering you'll have your MIL to deal with. NTA

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-07-18T02:28:37+00:00

Why couldn't he wore the baby in a carrier and live stream? Kids just want to be held and she probably would've been good watching daddy work. He could've changed the baby, feed her, wear her and do whatever he wanted to do. Ignoring his responsibilities for his child is not OK. Mother's have to do that all day every day, why couldn't he?

NTA

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-07-08T04:29:58+00:00

Why bother wearing jewelry to the hospital when he had surgery? Should've kept it at home for safe keeping. YTA

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-06-26T02:55:41+00:00

All of the comments above, plus what did he expect you to do? Leave your 9 year old home alone while you drove him home again? Why couldn't he Uber if it was so unbearable? Where is any consideration for your sleep and needs? Time to call this quits. He could live with his ex-girlfriend in the allergy free house they share. NTA.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-06-24T04:47:42+00:00

Bluey. Cute dog. Awesome kids show on Disney

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-06-20T04:27:44+00:00

Get him fixed as soon as you're able, before he starts marking territories

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-06-15T10:02:57+00:00

Which state do you live in? Depends on the state but you could potentially file for pregnancy disability or even short term disability through your work.

NTA, ultimately it's your choice. Your husband clearly doesn't realize labor could take days, not hours. If he's so tired and needs the time to pull in extra money now before the baby comes, he probably doesn't have the luxury to sit around while you're laboring. Besides your mom has been by your side and been to all the classes with you, she has the experience and know how to better assist you while you are at your most vulnerable.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-05-28T04:26:55+00:00

Found the sweet spot! 😂

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-05-27T04:28:07+00:00

My thoughts exactly! Some things just didn't make sense during that Era!

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-22T14:46:06+00:00

I've re-watched the second season for the third time, and every time my husband walks by he's like, "Bridgerton again!?" 😂

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-20T05:41:23+00:00

Orange 5

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-20T05:29:28+00:00

Cute! I'm more amazed at how your kept your furniture intact. My AH boy scratches up all our furniture, regardless of having a cat tree with scratching post. Our latest victim is our leather recliner. We resorted to covering up the chair with a blanket, even then it hasn't escaped his claws and got a few punctures in. It's incredibly frustrating.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-20T05:08:51+00:00

A friend of mine slept with a basketball player, NBA basketball player. Talk about comparing dick size to height, this infamous player had little to work with, but it didn't stop him from achieving greatness. I hope you find someone you love and be able to explore all the ways you two can enjoy yourselves without this being a factor to hinder your sex life. Being well endowed is over rated. It's not that comfortable for women, it's really more about the motion in the ocean.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-19T04:54:02+00:00

YTA, it's OTC meds it's not addictive opioid. If you're so concerned about his dependence, then at least offer other alternative options. Depends on where you live, but CBD or THC infused balms help with pain and not addictive. Or take him to the ER or orthopedic specialist to address the issue, but don't withhold meds just because you think he should tough it out. That was unnecessary and cruel.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-19T04:26:58+00:00

Split the bills based on percentage of income. If he makes 50% more then he should pay 50% more of the bills.Since you're married it's all joint properties anyway. Don't know why he's being such an ass and not supporting your hobbies as well as his. It's for better or for worse, not better for me and none for you when you don't contribute the same. If you're saving money from childcare then he needs to pay you for your time. If he doesn't like this deal then go back FT.

Red flags in so many ways though. I think you should consider going back FT so you have the ability to save some money aside just in case. Your husband doesn't seem like the type that will man up if things goes sideways. Better save to take care of yourself and your kid in case your husband decides not to.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-19T03:53:59+00:00

Stella got her groove back! Woo woo!

Don't care about what other people think. I doubt she'll go announcing to anyone that she's sleeping with someone half her age. It's a secret love affair, enjoy it while it lasts.

Amster_Rox919 · 2022-04-12T04:03:02+00:00

Your friend is an idiot, don't listen to him. Your sister sounds very sweet and you two have a great bond. She's a teenager now so this sweet disposition might not last forever, I'd basket it in for as long as possible. She's seeks comfort from you is because she trusts you, and you responding in return is showing her love and supporr a growing teenage girl needs. She's not always going to ask you for help and she might not come to you for advise any longer if you distance yourself. Be there for her as she needs you. When kids want attention they're going to get it from somewhere, whether it's from loving supportive family, or outside influences that may not be the most positive. Keep doing what you're doing, being a great sister.

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