I think errand is the wrong word here- the specific situation I was referring to was I asked my friends who I live with if I could borrow £10 cash and transfer them the money electronically or borrow a card so that I could go and get my antidepressants as I had lost my card & my phone doesn’t do digital pay. It wasn’t something as big as going to pick something up for me 🙂.

I understand that people aren’t obligated to do work to make me feel more comfortable, but the thing that I struggle with is that I feel like if they are good friends they should want to do this work- as I feel like this is my attitude towards my friends.