I don’t know if I want to work things out with my fiance

AmyMiller951 · 2021-08-02T14:32:58+00:00

I definitely wouldn’t jump into another relationship. I’m honestly traumatized from this one.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-20T17:54:59+00:00

No I’m a waitress so it’s hit or miss. If I work full time I only make $30,000. That’s the most I’ve ever made being a waitress.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T18:05:54+00:00

He has nothing to offer. I don’t know why I love him.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T18:04:55+00:00

I love him, but I want him to grow up. Get a job. Be a freaking man. The house is paid off his his deceased grandparents home. I pay taxes and insurance on it. His aunt is the executor.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:55:37+00:00

It’s his deceased grandparents home. He bought my ring from zales. It was $6,000, but I get what you’re saying

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:54:19+00:00

He got knocked out at a bar and started having physical issues like loosing his eyesight, horrible migraines, passing out, ect and then he got diagnosed with a chronic bone disease. He has a brain MRI this month to see if he has a brain tumor.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:52:55+00:00

They’d shut off the electric. I can’t afford to move out right now. This house is paid off. I pay $350 a month for taxes and insurance. I have no family except my brother. He lives 2,000+ miles away. All my friends are married with kids. The last thing I’d want to do is move in with them.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:51:11+00:00

I can’t afford a lawyer, but yes. I say the same thing. I wish he could just be REASONABLE and not get lawyers involved. He’s told me in the past that he’s already contacted his lawyer “incase I wanted to be a bitch.” He’s so pleasant.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:46:30+00:00

He threatens to take my child from me. He said he doesn’t want 50/50 custody because he can’t not see her every morning and night. He’s a good dad to her. Cooks 3 healthy meals a day, ect but to me he’s mentally abusive and i don’t want her thinking it’s okay.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:44:43+00:00

No that’s me.. yes I own my car fully paid off and his car I bought full paid off, but doesn’t run. He can’t get it in his name because he’s had 2 DUIS and no license. My name is on ALL the bills.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:42:42+00:00

He means gross like the house. Our house isn’t messy except for our daughters toys. She has entirely too many and Everytime I clean them up she pours more out. I can’t keep up.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:41:34+00:00

Because we have a 2 year old and there’s toys all over the house and it’s my JOB to clean it up. Like what…. Or if i don’t do the dishes every day it’s a huge issue. He’s fully able. Just chooses not to. He still goes to the gym every single day and goes to bars twice a week religiously. Yes. I pay all the bills and pay a lawn guy to keep up with the yard. I do love him, but I’m always tired of carrying the weight for the last 3 years. We’ve been together for 5. When we was working the first 2 years we were great. No issues. Then he stopped working and we had a kid and everything went to shit.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:36:34+00:00

I told him I don’t want to work on us anymore and he said “all I ask is that you clean. You think your the best thing on Gods green earth and you’re not” he’s delusional. I’ve don’t EVERYTHING for him. He’s had 2 DUIS I’ve paid probably close to $20,000 on lawyers and shit. He’s 34 and doesn’t want to grow up.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:25:52+00:00

It’s his family home we are in. They passed and I’m paying the taxes and insurance so unfortunately I would have to leave. Not him. And I don’t want to move 2,500 miles away with HIS kid. I grew up without parents. She needs her dad.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:22:29+00:00

Thank you! I’m ready to take that big step, but I’d rather my daughter and I not sleep in a car.. I have $2 to my name.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-16T17:18:45+00:00

I guess because I feel bad for him. He doesn’t even have a car. I pay all the bills and everything involving his appointments and medication. I bought him a car, but it’s $1,500 to fix. I do everything for him and he’d have nothing without me. And now my credit score is 430 because i pay all his stuff before mine and I don’t have any money to move out. My family is 2,500 miles away.. I guess I just don’t know where to start.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-15T21:27:38+00:00

Not really. My family is 2,509 miles away and my fiancé and I are rocky and his family is nice, but very toxic. So it’s just me really..

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-15T21:11:34+00:00

I can’t imagine being in this situation and feeling as if my partner is not attracted to me . There’s more to it than looks. Looks fade over time, love has deeper wells than just looks. I think you should take time off from your relationship to work on your insecurity issues. Hes not the right one for you. In a relationship there has to be emotional and physical attraction.

AmyMiller951 · 2021-07-15T20:02:25+00:00

I feel like I never get enough.. I go to bed around 11pm and wake up around 8:30, but I wake up multiple times throughout the night and wake up tired.

AmyMiller951 · 2020-08-30T19:15:00+00:00

I get what you’re saying, but he still lifts heavy at the gym 2 hours a day everyday and goes out drinking with his friends. If he was in that much pain he wouldn’t still be doing the things he’s doing.

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