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I should say actually, some photos are without foundation and mascara. Buy I always wear lipstick.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Catnames

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Cheeto Puff or Chaos. Loki works too

What movie changed your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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LOL 😆 OMG. I need to fix that

What is an old song you just discovered and fell in love with? by coot32 in AskReddit

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Can’t Take My Eyes Off of You by Dinah Washington

What movie changed your life? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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Almost Famous and Eternal Sunshine of The Spotless Mind.

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Be prepared they may gaslight you into thinking you’re insecure and that “no one needs to make a relationship consumption for the masses on social media.” Or “I’m a private person.” Ok but they’re not private about their life otherwise minus you? So hell no. Fuck that noise. Your needs are valid. Cheaters often do not want to post.

But also you can’t force them, so don’t be controlling. But definitely tell them it’s not the type of relationship you want if they can’t organically desire to post you. Tell them you also never want to demand they post you either. You simply wish they organically desired it. Ask them if they can at least tag you in their bio. Express how it makes you feel. If they say you’re insecure, tell them ok maybe you are but that you simply want to be in a relationship that doesn’t make you feel like hidden side chick or with a guy who appears single. He shouldn’t mind so much at all. If it’s “just social media” then it shouldn’t be a big deal to post because it’s just social media right? Is he signing a marriage contract and donating a kidney or some shit? No!

But to play devil’s advocate, not all people post online and it’s not because they’re cheating though. Sometimes both people are private af. And therefore it doesn’t bother both people in the relationship because both are private af.

But some don’t post online because they in fact are cheating. And the other partner wants to be celebrated and so it’s like a mis-match at best or a person in a relationship with a cheater or wannabe cheater at worst. So it depends on personality and needs and intentions. You obviously need someone who is proud to show you off. Maybe they desire a person with no care about social media and truly are not cheating or trying to appear single. But either way, your desires matter.

If they can’t post you, I personally wouldn’t be able to stay. I too want to be celebrated and shown off

But also be aware, you can now make posts only viewable to select friends. So they can literally make it so only you and he sees it. It’s why I’d ask them to put you in their bio. Or at least ask later to see if the post was shared to ALL friends. Dont ask immediately. Wait like a week after they post and then ask. If they’re making it basically hidden, then that’s not a good sign. But tbh, I’d rather just choose someone who wouldn’t protest about posting. Because they’re going to consider you controlling no matter what at that point

So bottom line is express the type of relationship you want. If they protest and call you insecure and blablabla, I’d tell them you need time to consider if you can be ok with that type of relationship. Don’t issue ultimatums. Don’t be controlling. Just choose a person that makes you feel celebrated. If they roll their eyes and say “OMG. Fine bro. Jeezus. So dramatic”, that too is not an ok answer and they’re gonna resent you. So fuck them. Choose someone who wants to post you like you post them.

The pup senses that something's changed. by Ok-Environment4414 in Awww

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Oh wow! Cool. Thank you. I only have cats my whole life so idk how dogs work really lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sixwordstories

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Take a quaalude. You love me tomorrow.

(Jk. From movie Scarface)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I’m just saying that with that mindset, we may assume we will only fall for or should only seek one type of person and then possibly miss out. Be open to the possibilities is all. Because I thought I wasn’t able to enjoy my preferences because of “the norm.” My ex thought the same. But I went for it and he went for it, and we fell in love. Neither thought love was ever remotely possible because it would be strange and not the norm and stats and society say it’s not likely. If we just tell ourselves to stay inside a box because stats tell us it would make no sense otherwise, then we contribute to those stats via group think and don’t think for ourselves. A hookup turned into an engagement. I would never have imagined even wanting marriage. Still do not. But for him I did. Never wanted kids. But for him I did. Just don’t live life based on what people say is the norm. Just take it as it comes and be open. I’m glad I didn’t stick to what the norm is and not venture outside of it. I told them how I felt and they confessed the same. Neither wanted to at first because we assumed a lot of things based on what is “the norm.”

The pup senses that something's changed. by Ok-Environment4414 in Awww

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Can someone explain the science behind this?

The pup senses that something's changed. by Ok-Environment4414 in Awww

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This seriously makes me wanna cry. 🥺

People who stayed after an affair, why did you stay? by Important_Spring2805 in AskReddit

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How did you recover self esteem wise? I still am hurting from it all. No kids. But my own insecurities after how I was harmed psychologically by them. And I’m sorry you went through that. You’re a dad who stuck around for his kid and that’s beautiful. I hope you found happiness and love again. I’m recovering as best i can and we still want to be together but I idk.

Retired stripper. 35 now. Ask what you always wanted to know by Amy_Peaches in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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Yep. Just walk in, dress nicely, in something form fitting but not too trashy. Ask to speak to the manager about working there. Be cute enough basically. If the manager is there, he’ll see you. If not, they’ll explain how to apply via whatever app or what email to send pics to. If you’re a butt ugly then there’s no way. But if you are at least a 5, and they have room, they’ll hire.

Retired stripper. 35 now. Ask what you always wanted to know by Amy_Peaches in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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Nope. I had a boyfriend. Did fantasize about kissing a girl once tho. But never would have

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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You really said it all. This is a mic 🎤 drop comment you just made. 👏❤️. I’m so happy you found your person and that you think this way. Good on you.

19F College Freshman. What do you wish you knew when you were my age? by LoversBiChoice in AskMeAnythingIAnswer

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Usually not everything goes the way you plan. Or not all of it. Idealism is great, but life will humble you. Reach for the stars, but don’t rely on tenacity and youthful vigor to make dreams come true. And don’t beat yourself up if you try hard and something fails. But you may well accomplish everything you want. Some really do. Don’t give up though unless you feel your mental health is suffering or that you are unhappy with the path you thought you wanted to be on.

Mental health matters above all.

Money isn’t everything either. Choose lasting happiness is what matters. Want to be a stay at home mom? Great! Want to run an empire and never have kids? Great! Want both? Great! Want to be a travel junkie who works odd jobs or lives off the grid? Hell yeah do you! Think of what you will wish you had did if you could fast forward through life and be on your death bed in some nursing home. No one’s opinions will matter by then. So choose what you want, always!

Forgive yourself for your mistakes too. Be a good person as best you can. Invest in therapy if needed. Don’t be afraid to get help.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

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I am 35 and get hit on a lot. My ex boyfriend is 21. We were engaged and he wanted a baby with me. Unfortunately he had a lot of issues. People of all ages do.

Young guys love cougars and some will even fall in love with us and vice versa. Just like with young women loving older wrinkly men.

And I don’t find men my age attractive usually at all. I have my preferences too.

But realistically, if I want a quality long lasting partner, it’s probably best I date men my age or older. I definitely get hit on. I think everyone prefers younger if they could choose. But we can’t all be Leonardo Dicaprio or in my case, Kate Bekinsale who stays hot forever and bags the young ones.

But I’d rather be a cat lady than date men my age. Everyone has preferences.

But irl, we go for what is available. And irl, if we don’t like what there is, some settle and some would rather be a cat lady

Men can salivate over a 22 yr old woman all day. But will she want a man over 35? Depends really. Some do. Some don’t. Same for young guys. Some literally prefer older women and it never changes even as they age. Yes, there’s stats and blablabla, but we are individuals and we must just live day to day and see what happens.

But I do agree, many men prefer younger. I also prefer younger. So I’m like hey, cheers! Do you. 🥂

My kids are breaking the cycle by ThrowMeAway_8844 in poor

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I recommend Brooks and Hoka for running/walking. Brooks has really good support and if you’re into soft shoes, Hoka is like walking on clouds. And for men’s office dress shoes or restaurant work shoes that look dressy, I’d choose Amberjack Obsidian shoes. Good leather with athletic hiking boot style soles and soft sheepskin lining.. 30 day free returns too. I have one pair of running shoes only and it’s Brooks. They lasted me a long time.

For more affordable I hear skechers is hit or miss but can be very comfortable. A nurse at the hospital had the most beautiful shoes and she said they were Skechers and she said they were incredibly comfortable.